Stay alive

How about you die, like right now?
I almost did.
I'm sorry, it's stupid to ask but what if?
Ever thought, what if just didn't make it through today?
Like..
You had a great night and clicked a lot of pictures with your friends and family but then you just met an accident.
And you died.
That'll be it, right?
'Forever' would stop FOREVER for you.
You would want to try coming back to life as your soul leaves your body and you try all you can to come back to life.
You'll be helpless.
And let's say you're even carrying any ID on you and of course your phone is password protected and nobody can access it and your family is waiting for you back home for dinner.
Your mom cooked your favourite dish or your girlfriend is waiting with a surprise or you have an important presentation the next morning for which you've been working all month long..
But;
What happens 10 minutes later your death won't matter to you anymore.
You're dead.
What matters is the last 3 seconds before you die.
I am talking to you about it because I just faced that.
I came home surviving the worst nightmare and it was a moment of the most brutal truth.
You know how they say that your whole life flashes before your eyes at a near death experience?
It doesn't. You don't see everything. Just the things you love, sort of!
The car that hit mine was more than 80km/h and ours was 30km/h or something and yet I saw the car come in almost slow motion.
It was happening in front of me.
I saw it when it hit me, but as the fates had it planned, I was fine but I didn't know that.

And those 3 seconds or so that I thought I have got made me think a thousand things at the same time.
I'm not who I want to be.
I'm not where I want to be.
My parents, who will tell them?
What's going to happen now!!
There's so so much I haven't done yet and so many people I have to meet.
The whole rush of all my friends faces and families faces rushed in my head and I couldn't do anything about it!
I knew I didn't want to die but I had no choice.
I was sure I'm dead.
And it gave me this thought too, which is the reason I'm writing this to you all people.
It's insanely true how any day could your last.
You may have plans for the weekend and you may not even see the weekday.
You may think how cool it'd be to put your life out of misery and be dead instead.
Oh, believe me..it's the stupidest thought you'll realise when it happens to you unplanned.
I wasn't satisfied with my life so far.
You know how they say if you'll be content when you die, you will accept death happily.
Hell no!
Life is so short we seriously have no idea.
As I write this, the sun has dawned upon us and the dates have changed.
Last night is just a memory to me, but had I not been lucky, it would have been the end of it.
There wouldn't have been this morning for me.
Just the last pictures.
The last words with people and some memories to live in.
Folks,
I won't tell you to live your day satisfying your needs to die peacefully.. that's crazy!
But boy, I will tell you this.
We'll never be satisfied but if we ever get to live each day with everything we can grab from those 24 hours..
Hell, it'll be the best thing ever.
Life is too short to be depressed, hold grudges, get angry, or stay jealous of people.
When you die, these things make no sense all.
You'll just be a body.
A dead body.
No feelings.
No emotions.
And no sense of what you missed behind in this amazing life.
Smile.
Love.
For in the end, that's all that matters.
Oh, and yeah;
Stay alive.

Why should we believe in love

Why should we believe in love..

We are going through a very peculiar period, mainly in respect to subjects that concern the heart, affective relations and our availability to love or, at least, try to.

No matter how much we talk about these possibilities, how much we look forward for great romances, there is something contradictory in the air… We have a general and well-known difficulty in trusting the others, a fear to surrender, besides the apparent (or real) human wickedness, in detriment of what has been promised and what was expressed as being a deep and genuine feeling.

It looks as if a person were in love one day… and, on the following, everything were over. So, why should we go on believing in love? Why should we go on investing, betting, and opening space for new relationships?

You know, no matter of how much I believe – and I truly do! – that there are noble, sincere and transparent persons who do look forward to living relationships founded on respect for themselves and the others, sometimes some incidents really shock me and I inevitably ask: myself if insisting in this search would not be pure innocence and even stubbornness.

Couples who have everything to be happy, people who really want happiness, disheartened and fragile men and women that would give their best in trying to feel a little – even if just a little – less lost, less confused, safer, more fulfilled… and however, fall in traps without knowing how to avoid them.

Lies, deceits, pains, incoherencies or mere and sudden diagnoses of what seemed to be a special meeting suddenly has no flavor… What a mess…, how sad and miserable such a situation appears… and gives each partner – or both – a dreadful feeling of not knowing what happened.

And as we experience one disenchantment after another, we loose our faith in life, our joy and become disheartened, empty, hurt, and not willing to give it a new try…

It would be easy for me to talk about so many couples that I see in love, happy and completing each other… because I do believe this is possible and I can see many relationships like these. However, lately, I have been receiving testimonies of people who feel incapable of engaging in a new relationship because they can no longer face unhappiness and, definitively, refuse to be disappointed once more…

Such people cannot see or believe something that does not happen to them, but I still have something that, in my opinion, will convince us not to give up.

We create our world. We are people: you and me, and all that live in your house, everybody you know and also who you don’t. Love and relationships are reflections of each one of us, of our choices and intentions. The world is a consequence of these people. And this includes you and me, and some six billions of souls.

Therefore, in order to change this reality, something inside us must change in such a strong and positive manner that it will be able to change this external reality. And however insignificant you feel your belief, your choice or your attitude looks towards the immensity of the universe, this is just an illusion.
You can hardly imagine the importance you have in this scenery and in the intense process of evolution and mature ness our planet is going through. And if you give up, if you do not believe in love, much will be lost. Hundreds of people will suffer for that reason.
You may even not believe what I’m saying but it is a fact and it is logic. This is why I do ask you to take a deep breath and give yourself one more chance, with no restrictions and without pointing fingers at each other, but keeping in mind you are doing your utmost for it to work out.

Thus, love will become bigger and deeper and even if it is only your grandsons who enjoy the outcomes, the world will be happier and with more love because of you!

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my dream becomes everyone

This poem wrote by me collaboration with wiityfeed
 and narrated by Anup verma. The poem really means a lot for me, I never wanted to share this but i couldn’t stop myself from recording and sharing. If you find anything offensive or even if you dislike anything about the poem  then kindly ignore it or keep it to yourself. I really don’t want to deal with any kind of critics view or negative response…    This one.. is really special for me, Dedicated to a special friend but the worst part is.. She is not in this world… I don’t want to write anymore in regard this post.
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Uss dosti ke naam

Ringa-Ringa Roses. 🌹
Pocket full of Roz-Roz,
Aisa-waisa we all fall down.
Ye ye wo dekh dekh wo ni gira.?
Phir usko chor(thief) banaya !
Khel hote time suddenly se kisi dost ki mummy balcony pe aati, chlo-chlo uske exams hain....... Aunty -Aunty please,please kuch der Aur khelne dijiye Na, please, please 🙏

Acha thik hai thode der Main wapas bhej Dena!
Friendship bands, haath Mai dosti ki kasme waale wo patte, jo uss waqt lagta tha zindagi bhar ni khule gi!
School ke wo aakhiri din, jb Slam book Mai tumhaare naam ki sketching ki thi na... Uske baad wo permanent marker ko pheli baar kisi ke shirt pe likha tha best friend forever!!
School Mai ghantoo saath betana dosto ke saath, uske baad raat Mai ghar waapas (return) aate hi, phirse unke sath land-line phone se lag jaana!
Wo wo saari memories jo hai humari dosti ki, yaarana ki....
Aaj ke date mein, aaj sirf yaadein hai ya uss waqt ko yaad kar sakte hain!
Pata hi nahi tha ki wo insaan, jo sirf khaane pe focus karta hai, wo aaj engineer ban jaaye ga.... Wo jo padhai (studies) nahi karta tha, wo aaj doctor ban jaaye ga!?
Kisi ke baare Mai kuch Muslim ni tha, uhi baithe waqt bitaa lia karte the, aur aaj kesa hai engineer dost tera?!me -pata nahi kha hai... O baat kiye bahut waqt hogya hai usse!

Mom-kyu tumlog to best friends The na ek time pe?
Me-mom waqt badal jaata hai.... Or dosti thi kya mtlb apka?  😡
Wo Ab bhi hai MAA bs waqt ke saath zimedaari wagera, wageraa bdh gya hai!
Zimedaari (responsibility) ye ek aisi funny baatein sunn kar lagti thi uss waqt Hume, jab hum sabhi saath baith kar baatein karte the, Aur kisi dost ki mummy usko daat rahti hoti thi ki kab zimedaar banoge?
Aur Hume hansi aati thi, aur bolte the ye-ye aunty kabhi zimedaar nahi bnega! 😂
Aur aaj uske muhh se zimedaar words sunte hai....... Ye jo shoulder pe bojh aagyi hai humare ,ye jo ek bachpan ke safar ko hum kahin bhul aaye, Hume Ab maalum tak nahi hai, kon dost kha hai!
Jiske land line number aaj bhi jubaani yaad hai, but uska phone lgta nahi hai, magar uska mobile number humaare pass Mai hi hai, facebook pe added jarur hai magar wo kaha pe trip ja raha hai, wo mujhe nahi maalum? Uski dosti kiske sath hai mujhe Ab ni maalum!
Wo kis-kis K saath baith kar lunch kiya karta tha o mujhe yaad hai.... Aaj mujhe nahi maalum ki wo dikhta kesa hoga ab?
Last update mujhe Tab mili thi jab kisi dost ke marriage ceremony Mai usse mila tha, to pata chla tha ki haan usne Ab mustache rakh li hai! Kuch friends ka to babies bhi hogye hai!

Jo-jo ek dosti ki darmiyaa mein itni kasme (promises) khaye the, jo baatein hum sab ne uss waqt ki thi yaar..... Pata hai aaj se 10 years baad Bhai humsab waha chale gye.... Money kamaye ge, ye Kare o Kare ge... Magar apsos paise kamaane ki iss daur mein, paise ki aan mein sabse kimati  importance chiz humse durr chli gyi!
Paise to bahut kamaye, magar jiske liye kamaana chahate the, jiske upr spend karna chyte the aaj wo log hi bht durr chle gye hai!
Ek awkward conversation wo bhi iss liye kyu ki aaj koi festival hai like holi, deewali etc.
Happy Diwali to you and your family.... Mahaj ye reh gyi hai humaari dosti..... Jab uske ghar pe jakar ke uske clothes ko phaad kar ke rang lagaaya karte the, wo time hi kuch aur tha?! Magar Ab zimedaarion ka aisa bojh aa gya humaare upar ki yaar kaisa hai tu?
Thik to hai na?

Ye puchne mein bhi darr lagta hai, kyu ki mujhe iss baat ka yakeen hai ki tu kaisa hai ki reply mein wo jhut bole ga, aur Mai bhi muskuraa dunga.... Aur use smjh Mai aa jaaye GA ki Maine uska jhut pakr lia hai, magar hum dono kuch nahi kehenge!!
Us khamoshi ke naam, uss dosti ke naam, aaj ye guzaarish hai Guru sachu ki, ke uthaoo aaj phone, Aur jis insaan ko tumne sirf saal Mai teen daffa New Year, Holi aur deewali pe celebration ke liye wish kia tha,,,, Aaj usse ek baar bss uhi kardo......

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Khair yaaron aaj tumlogo ke baare Mai soch rha tha, suno weekend pe free ho Kya tumlog...!
Milte hai na.. Agar wo haan keh de to jarur milna.... Agar wo na kahe to uske ghar chale jaana!
Kyu ki ye dosti bade naseeb waalon ko milti hai!
Aao dosti yaad kare!! Love you all guys and wish you all happy Friendship Day 🙌💖
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