Dear women,
Didn't expect this would be my first post of the year but then I think it's high time I discuss this with each and every one of you because it's getting out of hands.
Few days back, a friend of a close friend committed suicide because she was groped and molested by some jerks. Later it was found that she was raped for two weeks. She couldn't talk to her family because *it was her own uncle*
Over the years, I happened to talk to thousands of girls/women..married and unmarried through social media or in person.
It's the account of comfort that made those kind people express the most humiliating side of their dark past.
Consider this my own survey which technically has no proof of evidence but deep down if you're reading this, were you sexually molested too?
Take a moment.
Think.
I heard disturbing stories from them about getting tortured, taken advantage of, threatening meetings and what not!
One of the lady I met was raped time and again by the FAMILY PANDIT who used to come to her place for all the hawans, like all the time!
Then a woman told me how she was forced by her own uncle to do nasty things to him in exchange for candies.
Today a friend posted about her life and the challenges she's faced every single day ever since she could recall that she existed.
Brothers blackmailing and humping their own sisters.
Fathers groping and molesting their own daughters.
Dear lord, I met this girl once whose mother used to sit and watch as her father forced her to do things!
So many disturbing stories!
I know this is India, and we don't talk about these things in public and especially in family because in most of the cases, it's the family that's the reason of the issue.
But every time I met someone who had shared a past like this and when they used to tell me about the incidents, I saw that their memories have affected their personalities.
If they're shy, it's because they're scared of the past.
If they're blunt; rude, it's because they've accepted the fact that they've been 'used' and they can't move past it.
This is for all you girls out there who've been a victim or have faced something more traumatic;
And I speak on behalf of the remaining section of the society who are sane, educated and not moronic.
I am proud of you all.
Surviving and overcoming the fears and nightmares which I cannot even begin to imagine..
Thank you for being the beautiful souls you all are but now, suffering in silence is becoming like a third stage cancer.
Please open up.
Spread the word.
Take no shame in sharing and naming the people who've caused you this tragedy.
You've come a long way..
Look at yourself, the strong inspiration that you are today to so many little girls who now look upon you for wisdom.
Be all the sassy you want but take no one's shit.
You have the power in your own hands.
And never, never let go of life so easily.
Not because of some jerk who just walks the streets freely and you trap yourself in when you were the free bird.
Fly.
And if there is no one who'd listen then there are people like me.
Strangers but not so strange.
You'll be mothers someday and you'll have your daughters coming over to you to ask for advices and think about this for a moment; one strong decision you take today will make you a proud mother.
Life doesn't end so easily just because you were humiliated.
It's time you give that humiliation back.
Avenge.
One small spark will light up everything good and BURN EVERYTHING BAD.
You're beautiful and precious.
Don't let anyone degrade your consciousness.
The innocence that resides in you, keep it alive but always know when to kick back.
There's are millions like you who need your support.
For everything there's always hope and when there's nobody to talk to;
#mainsachitsingh
#changelives
Didn't expect this would be my first post of the year but then I think it's high time I discuss this with each and every one of you because it's getting out of hands.
Few days back, a friend of a close friend committed suicide because she was groped and molested by some jerks. Later it was found that she was raped for two weeks. She couldn't talk to her family because *it was her own uncle*
Over the years, I happened to talk to thousands of girls/women..married and unmarried through social media or in person.
It's the account of comfort that made those kind people express the most humiliating side of their dark past.
Consider this my own survey which technically has no proof of evidence but deep down if you're reading this, were you sexually molested too?
Take a moment.
Think.
I heard disturbing stories from them about getting tortured, taken advantage of, threatening meetings and what not!
One of the lady I met was raped time and again by the FAMILY PANDIT who used to come to her place for all the hawans, like all the time!
Then a woman told me how she was forced by her own uncle to do nasty things to him in exchange for candies.
Today a friend posted about her life and the challenges she's faced every single day ever since she could recall that she existed.
Brothers blackmailing and humping their own sisters.
Fathers groping and molesting their own daughters.
Dear lord, I met this girl once whose mother used to sit and watch as her father forced her to do things!
So many disturbing stories!
I know this is India, and we don't talk about these things in public and especially in family because in most of the cases, it's the family that's the reason of the issue.
But every time I met someone who had shared a past like this and when they used to tell me about the incidents, I saw that their memories have affected their personalities.
If they're shy, it's because they're scared of the past.
If they're blunt; rude, it's because they've accepted the fact that they've been 'used' and they can't move past it.
This is for all you girls out there who've been a victim or have faced something more traumatic;
And I speak on behalf of the remaining section of the society who are sane, educated and not moronic.
I am proud of you all.
Surviving and overcoming the fears and nightmares which I cannot even begin to imagine..
Thank you for being the beautiful souls you all are but now, suffering in silence is becoming like a third stage cancer.
Please open up.
Spread the word.
Take no shame in sharing and naming the people who've caused you this tragedy.
You've come a long way..
Look at yourself, the strong inspiration that you are today to so many little girls who now look upon you for wisdom.
Be all the sassy you want but take no one's shit.
You have the power in your own hands.
And never, never let go of life so easily.
Not because of some jerk who just walks the streets freely and you trap yourself in when you were the free bird.
Fly.
And if there is no one who'd listen then there are people like me.
Strangers but not so strange.
You'll be mothers someday and you'll have your daughters coming over to you to ask for advices and think about this for a moment; one strong decision you take today will make you a proud mother.
Life doesn't end so easily just because you were humiliated.
It's time you give that humiliation back.
Avenge.
One small spark will light up everything good and BURN EVERYTHING BAD.
You're beautiful and precious.
Don't let anyone degrade your consciousness.
The innocence that resides in you, keep it alive but always know when to kick back.
There's are millions like you who need your support.
For everything there's always hope and when there's nobody to talk to;
#mainsachitsingh
#changelives
