Tuesday 10 2019
TAKEMEBACK
Tuesday 26 2019
Ye unke liye jinke pass na to dost hain aur na hi pyaar!
Pyaar,kabhi muqammal hua nahi.
Dosti,kabhi kisi ne nibhayi nahi.
Humesha har manzar ko
Har pal ko maine akele hi jiya.
To kya iska Matlab ye hua ki
Main khush nahi rehta hoon?
Naah,jinko khushiya pyaar
Aur dosti me nahi milti,wo
Apni khushiya khud dhundte hain.
Kyun hona hai bhai,bhagwaan
Ne tumhe ek Zindagi di hai
Usko pura khul ke Jiyo yaar.
Zindagi ke har mod pe tumhe
Aise log milte rahenge jinse tum
Dosti bhi karoge,aur shayad
Koi thode zyada waqt tak
theher gaya, to payar bhi.
Lekin is sab ke baad bhi tumhe
Apne aap ko nahi bhulna hai,
Apni khud ki value nahi girani.
Koi hai tumhare saath aur
Rehna bhi chahta hai, to
Uski kadar karo,usko apne
Pas sambhal ke rakho.
Kyunki aaj ke zamane mein
Kisi ka hona hi bahaut hota hai,
Magar is sab me apni
Pechchan mat khona.
ONEMINUTEPOETRY ❤🌹
Dosti,kabhi kisi ne nibhayi nahi.
Humesha har manzar ko
Har pal ko maine akele hi jiya.
To kya iska Matlab ye hua ki
Main khush nahi rehta hoon?
Naah,jinko khushiya pyaar
Aur dosti me nahi milti,wo
Apni khushiya khud dhundte hain.
Kyun hona hai bhai,bhagwaan
Ne tumhe ek Zindagi di hai
Usko pura khul ke Jiyo yaar.
Zindagi ke har mod pe tumhe
Aise log milte rahenge jinse tum
Dosti bhi karoge,aur shayad
Koi thode zyada waqt tak
theher gaya, to payar bhi.
Lekin is sab ke baad bhi tumhe
Apne aap ko nahi bhulna hai,
Apni khud ki value nahi girani.
Koi hai tumhare saath aur
Rehna bhi chahta hai, to
Uski kadar karo,usko apne
Pas sambhal ke rakho.
Kyunki aaj ke zamane mein
Kisi ka hona hi bahaut hota hai,
Magar is sab me apni
Pechchan mat khona.
ONEMINUTEPOETRY ❤🌹
Friday 22 2019
Humanity
Why don't we go ahead.... let's just talk about Free hikes, stupid comments made by politicians, and please!
Oh , please let's build more statues and rename cities.
I mean....how can you demand a government that is here for our service?
How did you even think you could just come and ask for education as a must?
Let's fight and kill for the sake of our's so called religion.
That's actually the call of the hour!
We have spare planets that are safe and waiting for us to shift there once we are done dooming earth.
Endangered animals?
Lol.......
We don't need 'em
The ones that are extinct aren't complaining what's the fuss about this then?
Ice Caps melting?
That's just how we roll.
Lakes vanishing?
Kudos! More space for us to fight for and build Holly places .
Most polluted cities?
Country?
Ah..... listen
You just need to know.....Any promotion is good business promotion folks.
Let's keep rolling the dice of madness while some crazy people,for God's knows what reason are doing things to restore faith in humanity.
Ppffffh.
Humanity.
Damn.
While we share those adorable panda and koala videos with comments like...."totally me","awww, I want to adopt this cutie".
We choose not to wander what went wrong.
Tuesday,a terrible fire took of almost an entire Forest where koalas thought they are free and Happy.
This woman took her top off to save a koala caught in the midst of the terrible fire in Australia that has wiped out estimated 350 koalas out of 700 koalas that lived in the region.
350!
But never mind,
It's all going to work out,you guys.
So what our ecosystem is screwed?
At least we will be remembered as the species who lived a THUG-life.
We saw it all going down and had the decency to just ignore it.
That's the beauty of us humans.
#Australiafire
#savetheplanet
#koalas
#Earth
#abcnews
Monday 26 2019
Stay alive
How about you die, like right now?
I almost did.
I'm sorry, it's stupid to ask but what if?
Ever thought, what if just didn't make it through today?
Like..
You had a great night and clicked a lot of pictures with your friends and family but then you just met an accident.
And you died.
That'll be it, right?
'Forever' would stop FOREVER for you.
You would want to try coming back to life as your soul leaves your body and you try all you can to come back to life.
You'll be helpless.
And let's say you're even carrying any ID on you and of course your phone is password protected and nobody can access it and your family is waiting for you back home for dinner.
Your mom cooked your favourite dish or your girlfriend is waiting with a surprise or you have an important presentation the next morning for which you've been working all month long..
But;
What happens 10 minutes later your death won't matter to you anymore.
You're dead.
What matters is the last 3 seconds before you die.
I am talking to you about it because I just faced that.
I came home surviving the worst nightmare and it was a moment of the most brutal truth.
You know how they say that your whole life flashes before your eyes at a near death experience?
It doesn't. You don't see everything. Just the things you love, sort of!
The car that hit mine was more than 80km/h and ours was 30km/h or something and yet I saw the car come in almost slow motion.
It was happening in front of me.
I saw it when it hit me, but as the fates had it planned, I was fine but I didn't know that.
And those 3 seconds or so that I thought I have got made me think a thousand things at the same time.
I'm not who I want to be.
I'm not where I want to be.
My parents, who will tell them?
What's going to happen now!!
There's so so much I haven't done yet and so many people I have to meet.
The whole rush of all my friends faces and families faces rushed in my head and I couldn't do anything about it!
I knew I didn't want to die but I had no choice.
I was sure I'm dead.
And it gave me this thought too, which is the reason I'm writing this to you all people.
It's insanely true how any day could your last.
You may have plans for the weekend and you may not even see the weekday.
You may think how cool it'd be to put your life out of misery and be dead instead.
Oh, believe me..it's the stupidest thought you'll realise when it happens to you unplanned.
I wasn't satisfied with my life so far.
You know how they say if you'll be content when you die, you will accept death happily.
Hell no!
Life is so short we seriously have no idea.
As I write this, the sun has dawned upon us and the dates have changed.
Last night is just a memory to me, but had I not been lucky, it would have been the end of it.
There wouldn't have been this morning for me.
Just the last pictures.
The last words with people and some memories to live in.
Folks,
I won't tell you to live your day satisfying your needs to die peacefully.. that's crazy!
But boy, I will tell you this.
We'll never be satisfied but if we ever get to live each day with everything we can grab from those 24 hours..
Hell, it'll be the best thing ever.
Life is too short to be depressed, hold grudges, get angry, or stay jealous of people.
When you die, these things make no sense all.
You'll just be a body.
A dead body.
No feelings.
No emotions.
And no sense of what you missed behind in this amazing life.
Smile.
Love.
For in the end, that's all that matters.
Oh, and yeah;
Stay alive.
I almost did.
I'm sorry, it's stupid to ask but what if?
Ever thought, what if just didn't make it through today?
Like..
You had a great night and clicked a lot of pictures with your friends and family but then you just met an accident.
And you died.
That'll be it, right?
'Forever' would stop FOREVER for you.
You would want to try coming back to life as your soul leaves your body and you try all you can to come back to life.
You'll be helpless.
And let's say you're even carrying any ID on you and of course your phone is password protected and nobody can access it and your family is waiting for you back home for dinner.
Your mom cooked your favourite dish or your girlfriend is waiting with a surprise or you have an important presentation the next morning for which you've been working all month long..
But;
What happens 10 minutes later your death won't matter to you anymore.
You're dead.
What matters is the last 3 seconds before you die.
I am talking to you about it because I just faced that.
I came home surviving the worst nightmare and it was a moment of the most brutal truth.
You know how they say that your whole life flashes before your eyes at a near death experience?
It doesn't. You don't see everything. Just the things you love, sort of!
The car that hit mine was more than 80km/h and ours was 30km/h or something and yet I saw the car come in almost slow motion.
It was happening in front of me.
I saw it when it hit me, but as the fates had it planned, I was fine but I didn't know that.
And those 3 seconds or so that I thought I have got made me think a thousand things at the same time.
I'm not who I want to be.
I'm not where I want to be.
My parents, who will tell them?
What's going to happen now!!
There's so so much I haven't done yet and so many people I have to meet.
The whole rush of all my friends faces and families faces rushed in my head and I couldn't do anything about it!
I knew I didn't want to die but I had no choice.
I was sure I'm dead.
And it gave me this thought too, which is the reason I'm writing this to you all people.
It's insanely true how any day could your last.
You may have plans for the weekend and you may not even see the weekday.
You may think how cool it'd be to put your life out of misery and be dead instead.
Oh, believe me..it's the stupidest thought you'll realise when it happens to you unplanned.
I wasn't satisfied with my life so far.
You know how they say if you'll be content when you die, you will accept death happily.
Hell no!
Life is so short we seriously have no idea.
As I write this, the sun has dawned upon us and the dates have changed.
Last night is just a memory to me, but had I not been lucky, it would have been the end of it.
There wouldn't have been this morning for me.
Just the last pictures.
The last words with people and some memories to live in.
Folks,
I won't tell you to live your day satisfying your needs to die peacefully.. that's crazy!
But boy, I will tell you this.
We'll never be satisfied but if we ever get to live each day with everything we can grab from those 24 hours..
Hell, it'll be the best thing ever.
Life is too short to be depressed, hold grudges, get angry, or stay jealous of people.
When you die, these things make no sense all.
You'll just be a body.
A dead body.
No feelings.
No emotions.
And no sense of what you missed behind in this amazing life.
Smile.
Love.
For in the end, that's all that matters.
Oh, and yeah;
Stay alive.
Friday 23 2019
Why should we believe in love
Why should we believe in love..
We are going through a very peculiar period, mainly in respect to subjects that concern the heart, affective relations and our availability to love or, at least, try to.
No matter how much we talk about these possibilities, how much we look forward for great romances, there is something contradictory in the air… We have a general and well-known difficulty in trusting the others, a fear to surrender, besides the apparent (or real) human wickedness, in detriment of what has been promised and what was expressed as being a deep and genuine feeling.
It looks as if a person were in love one day… and, on the following, everything were over. So, why should we go on believing in love? Why should we go on investing, betting, and opening space for new relationships?
You know, no matter of how much I believe – and I truly do! – that there are noble, sincere and transparent persons who do look forward to living relationships founded on respect for themselves and the others, sometimes some incidents really shock me and I inevitably ask: myself if insisting in this search would not be pure innocence and even stubbornness.
Couples who have everything to be happy, people who really want happiness, disheartened and fragile men and women that would give their best in trying to feel a little – even if just a little – less lost, less confused, safer, more fulfilled… and however, fall in traps without knowing how to avoid them.
Lies, deceits, pains, incoherencies or mere and sudden diagnoses of what seemed to be a special meeting suddenly has no flavor… What a mess…, how sad and miserable such a situation appears… and gives each partner – or both – a dreadful feeling of not knowing what happened.
And as we experience one disenchantment after another, we loose our faith in life, our joy and become disheartened, empty, hurt, and not willing to give it a new try…
It would be easy for me to talk about so many couples that I see in love, happy and completing each other… because I do believe this is possible and I can see many relationships like these. However, lately, I have been receiving testimonies of people who feel incapable of engaging in a new relationship because they can no longer face unhappiness and, definitively, refuse to be disappointed once more…
Such people cannot see or believe something that does not happen to them, but I still have something that, in my opinion, will convince us not to give up.
We create our world. We are people: you and me, and all that live in your house, everybody you know and also who you don’t. Love and relationships are reflections of each one of us, of our choices and intentions. The world is a consequence of these people. And this includes you and me, and some six billions of souls.
Therefore, in order to change this reality, something inside us must change in such a strong and positive manner that it will be able to change this external reality. And however insignificant you feel your belief, your choice or your attitude looks towards the immensity of the universe, this is just an illusion.
You can hardly imagine the importance you have in this scenery and in the intense process of evolution and mature ness our planet is going through. And if you give up, if you do not believe in love, much will be lost. Hundreds of people will suffer for that reason.
You may even not believe what I’m saying but it is a fact and it is logic. This is why I do ask you to take a deep breath and give yourself one more chance, with no restrictions and without pointing fingers at each other, but keeping in mind you are doing your utmost for it to work out.
Thus, love will become bigger and deeper and even if it is only your grandsons who enjoy the outcomes, the world will be happier and with more love because of you!
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We are going through a very peculiar period, mainly in respect to subjects that concern the heart, affective relations and our availability to love or, at least, try to.
No matter how much we talk about these possibilities, how much we look forward for great romances, there is something contradictory in the air… We have a general and well-known difficulty in trusting the others, a fear to surrender, besides the apparent (or real) human wickedness, in detriment of what has been promised and what was expressed as being a deep and genuine feeling.
It looks as if a person were in love one day… and, on the following, everything were over. So, why should we go on believing in love? Why should we go on investing, betting, and opening space for new relationships?
You know, no matter of how much I believe – and I truly do! – that there are noble, sincere and transparent persons who do look forward to living relationships founded on respect for themselves and the others, sometimes some incidents really shock me and I inevitably ask: myself if insisting in this search would not be pure innocence and even stubbornness.
Couples who have everything to be happy, people who really want happiness, disheartened and fragile men and women that would give their best in trying to feel a little – even if just a little – less lost, less confused, safer, more fulfilled… and however, fall in traps without knowing how to avoid them.
Lies, deceits, pains, incoherencies or mere and sudden diagnoses of what seemed to be a special meeting suddenly has no flavor… What a mess…, how sad and miserable such a situation appears… and gives each partner – or both – a dreadful feeling of not knowing what happened.
And as we experience one disenchantment after another, we loose our faith in life, our joy and become disheartened, empty, hurt, and not willing to give it a new try…
It would be easy for me to talk about so many couples that I see in love, happy and completing each other… because I do believe this is possible and I can see many relationships like these. However, lately, I have been receiving testimonies of people who feel incapable of engaging in a new relationship because they can no longer face unhappiness and, definitively, refuse to be disappointed once more…
Such people cannot see or believe something that does not happen to them, but I still have something that, in my opinion, will convince us not to give up.
We create our world. We are people: you and me, and all that live in your house, everybody you know and also who you don’t. Love and relationships are reflections of each one of us, of our choices and intentions. The world is a consequence of these people. And this includes you and me, and some six billions of souls.
Therefore, in order to change this reality, something inside us must change in such a strong and positive manner that it will be able to change this external reality. And however insignificant you feel your belief, your choice or your attitude looks towards the immensity of the universe, this is just an illusion.
You can hardly imagine the importance you have in this scenery and in the intense process of evolution and mature ness our planet is going through. And if you give up, if you do not believe in love, much will be lost. Hundreds of people will suffer for that reason.
You may even not believe what I’m saying but it is a fact and it is logic. This is why I do ask you to take a deep breath and give yourself one more chance, with no restrictions and without pointing fingers at each other, but keeping in mind you are doing your utmost for it to work out.
Thus, love will become bigger and deeper and even if it is only your grandsons who enjoy the outcomes, the world will be happier and with more love because of you!
Blogger:-Thesachit
WordPress :-Sachit.wordpress.com
Fb:-sachitsinghrajput
Twitter:-captainsachit
Officialwealthpeople.com
Saturday 17 2019
my dream becomes everyone
This poem wrote by me collaboration with wiityfeed
and narrated by Anup verma. The poem really means a lot for me, I never wanted to share this but i couldn’t stop myself from recording and sharing. If you find anything offensive or even if you dislike anything about the poem then kindly ignore it or keep it to yourself. I really don’t want to deal with any kind of critics view or negative response… This one.. is really special for me, Dedicated to a special friend but the worst part is.. She is not in this world… I don’t want to write anymore in regard this post.
Thank You…
@mainsachitsingh
@wittfeed.icf
@innervoice.wfc
@aanupverma
Sunday 04 2019
Uss dosti ke naam
Ringa-Ringa Roses. 🌹
Pocket full of Roz-Roz,
Aisa-waisa we all fall down.
Ye ye wo dekh dekh wo ni gira.?
Phir usko chor(thief) banaya !
Khel hote time suddenly se kisi dost ki mummy balcony pe aati, chlo-chlo uske exams hain....... Aunty -Aunty please,please kuch der Aur khelne dijiye Na, please, please 🙏
Acha thik hai thode der Main wapas bhej Dena!
Friendship bands, haath Mai dosti ki kasme waale wo patte, jo uss waqt lagta tha zindagi bhar ni khule gi!
School ke wo aakhiri din, jb Slam book Mai tumhaare naam ki sketching ki thi na... Uske baad wo permanent marker ko pheli baar kisi ke shirt pe likha tha best friend forever!!
School Mai ghantoo saath betana dosto ke saath, uske baad raat Mai ghar waapas (return) aate hi, phirse unke sath land-line phone se lag jaana!
Wo wo saari memories jo hai humari dosti ki, yaarana ki....
Aaj ke date mein, aaj sirf yaadein hai ya uss waqt ko yaad kar sakte hain!
Pata hi nahi tha ki wo insaan, jo sirf khaane pe focus karta hai, wo aaj engineer ban jaaye ga.... Wo jo padhai (studies) nahi karta tha, wo aaj doctor ban jaaye ga!?
Kisi ke baare Mai kuch Muslim ni tha, uhi baithe waqt bitaa lia karte the, aur aaj kesa hai engineer dost tera?!me -pata nahi kha hai... O baat kiye bahut waqt hogya hai usse!
Mom-kyu tumlog to best friends The na ek time pe?
Me-mom waqt badal jaata hai.... Or dosti thi kya mtlb apka? 😡
Wo Ab bhi hai MAA bs waqt ke saath zimedaari wagera, wageraa bdh gya hai!
Zimedaari (responsibility) ye ek aisi funny baatein sunn kar lagti thi uss waqt Hume, jab hum sabhi saath baith kar baatein karte the, Aur kisi dost ki mummy usko daat rahti hoti thi ki kab zimedaar banoge?
Aur Hume hansi aati thi, aur bolte the ye-ye aunty kabhi zimedaar nahi bnega! 😂
Aur aaj uske muhh se zimedaar words sunte hai....... Ye jo shoulder pe bojh aagyi hai humare ,ye jo ek bachpan ke safar ko hum kahin bhul aaye, Hume Ab maalum tak nahi hai, kon dost kha hai!
Jiske land line number aaj bhi jubaani yaad hai, but uska phone lgta nahi hai, magar uska mobile number humaare pass Mai hi hai, facebook pe added jarur hai magar wo kaha pe trip ja raha hai, wo mujhe nahi maalum? Uski dosti kiske sath hai mujhe Ab ni maalum!
Wo kis-kis K saath baith kar lunch kiya karta tha o mujhe yaad hai.... Aaj mujhe nahi maalum ki wo dikhta kesa hoga ab?
Last update mujhe Tab mili thi jab kisi dost ke marriage ceremony Mai usse mila tha, to pata chla tha ki haan usne Ab mustache rakh li hai! Kuch friends ka to babies bhi hogye hai!
Jo-jo ek dosti ki darmiyaa mein itni kasme (promises) khaye the, jo baatein hum sab ne uss waqt ki thi yaar..... Pata hai aaj se 10 years baad Bhai humsab waha chale gye.... Money kamaye ge, ye Kare o Kare ge... Magar apsos paise kamaane ki iss daur mein, paise ki aan mein sabse kimati importance chiz humse durr chli gyi!
Paise to bahut kamaye, magar jiske liye kamaana chahate the, jiske upr spend karna chyte the aaj wo log hi bht durr chle gye hai!
Ek awkward conversation wo bhi iss liye kyu ki aaj koi festival hai like holi, deewali etc.
Happy Diwali to you and your family.... Mahaj ye reh gyi hai humaari dosti..... Jab uske ghar pe jakar ke uske clothes ko phaad kar ke rang lagaaya karte the, wo time hi kuch aur tha?! Magar Ab zimedaarion ka aisa bojh aa gya humaare upar ki yaar kaisa hai tu?
Thik to hai na?
Ye puchne mein bhi darr lagta hai, kyu ki mujhe iss baat ka yakeen hai ki tu kaisa hai ki reply mein wo jhut bole ga, aur Mai bhi muskuraa dunga.... Aur use smjh Mai aa jaaye GA ki Maine uska jhut pakr lia hai, magar hum dono kuch nahi kehenge!!
Us khamoshi ke naam, uss dosti ke naam, aaj ye guzaarish hai Guru sachu ki, ke uthaoo aaj phone, Aur jis insaan ko tumne sirf saal Mai teen daffa New Year, Holi aur deewali pe celebration ke liye wish kia tha,,,, Aaj usse ek baar bss uhi kardo......
Hey.... Pushkar, Sagar, J.d,saurabh,krishna,shatanu,balram,ashutosh,tanmay,smriti,sonu,rahul,aakash,aakisht,reeshi,nikhil,rajneesh,alok,abhishek,prakash,sakshi,alisa,upasana,renuka,shubham,aniket,divyanshu,,luv,nihaarika,shweta,subhojit,shristi,honey,rohit,komal,arannya,hemant,deepika,shreya,mahima,priyasha,aaniya,riya,vatiska,shristi,shrics,Eashita,muskaan,jiya,ankiyay,rohan,simran,disha,nehaa,amit,neeraj,kashish,ambica,savi,richi,pragya,tanmay or v kisi ka naam na likha ho to maafi 🙏
Khair yaaron aaj tumlogo ke baare Mai soch rha tha, suno weekend pe free ho Kya tumlog...!
Milte hai na.. Agar wo haan keh de to jarur milna.... Agar wo na kahe to uske ghar chale jaana!
Kyu ki ye dosti bade naseeb waalon ko milti hai!
Aao dosti yaad kare!! Love you all guys and wish you all happy Friendship Day 🙌💖
@mainsachitsingh
#love
#life
#spreadlove
#followme on instagram
#wittyfeed
#blogspot
#Friendship Day
Pocket full of Roz-Roz,
Aisa-waisa we all fall down.
Ye ye wo dekh dekh wo ni gira.?
Phir usko chor(thief) banaya !
Khel hote time suddenly se kisi dost ki mummy balcony pe aati, chlo-chlo uske exams hain....... Aunty -Aunty please,please kuch der Aur khelne dijiye Na, please, please 🙏
Friendship bands, haath Mai dosti ki kasme waale wo patte, jo uss waqt lagta tha zindagi bhar ni khule gi!
School ke wo aakhiri din, jb Slam book Mai tumhaare naam ki sketching ki thi na... Uske baad wo permanent marker ko pheli baar kisi ke shirt pe likha tha best friend forever!!
School Mai ghantoo saath betana dosto ke saath, uske baad raat Mai ghar waapas (return) aate hi, phirse unke sath land-line phone se lag jaana!
Wo wo saari memories jo hai humari dosti ki, yaarana ki....
Aaj ke date mein, aaj sirf yaadein hai ya uss waqt ko yaad kar sakte hain!
Pata hi nahi tha ki wo insaan, jo sirf khaane pe focus karta hai, wo aaj engineer ban jaaye ga.... Wo jo padhai (studies) nahi karta tha, wo aaj doctor ban jaaye ga!?
Kisi ke baare Mai kuch Muslim ni tha, uhi baithe waqt bitaa lia karte the, aur aaj kesa hai engineer dost tera?!me -pata nahi kha hai... O baat kiye bahut waqt hogya hai usse!
Me-mom waqt badal jaata hai.... Or dosti thi kya mtlb apka? 😡
Wo Ab bhi hai MAA bs waqt ke saath zimedaari wagera, wageraa bdh gya hai!
Zimedaari (responsibility) ye ek aisi funny baatein sunn kar lagti thi uss waqt Hume, jab hum sabhi saath baith kar baatein karte the, Aur kisi dost ki mummy usko daat rahti hoti thi ki kab zimedaar banoge?
Aur Hume hansi aati thi, aur bolte the ye-ye aunty kabhi zimedaar nahi bnega! 😂
Aur aaj uske muhh se zimedaar words sunte hai....... Ye jo shoulder pe bojh aagyi hai humare ,ye jo ek bachpan ke safar ko hum kahin bhul aaye, Hume Ab maalum tak nahi hai, kon dost kha hai!
Jiske land line number aaj bhi jubaani yaad hai, but uska phone lgta nahi hai, magar uska mobile number humaare pass Mai hi hai, facebook pe added jarur hai magar wo kaha pe trip ja raha hai, wo mujhe nahi maalum? Uski dosti kiske sath hai mujhe Ab ni maalum!
Wo kis-kis K saath baith kar lunch kiya karta tha o mujhe yaad hai.... Aaj mujhe nahi maalum ki wo dikhta kesa hoga ab?
Last update mujhe Tab mili thi jab kisi dost ke marriage ceremony Mai usse mila tha, to pata chla tha ki haan usne Ab mustache rakh li hai! Kuch friends ka to babies bhi hogye hai!
Paise to bahut kamaye, magar jiske liye kamaana chahate the, jiske upr spend karna chyte the aaj wo log hi bht durr chle gye hai!
Ek awkward conversation wo bhi iss liye kyu ki aaj koi festival hai like holi, deewali etc.
Happy Diwali to you and your family.... Mahaj ye reh gyi hai humaari dosti..... Jab uske ghar pe jakar ke uske clothes ko phaad kar ke rang lagaaya karte the, wo time hi kuch aur tha?! Magar Ab zimedaarion ka aisa bojh aa gya humaare upar ki yaar kaisa hai tu?
Thik to hai na?
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Khair yaaron aaj tumlogo ke baare Mai soch rha tha, suno weekend pe free ho Kya tumlog...!
Milte hai na.. Agar wo haan keh de to jarur milna.... Agar wo na kahe to uske ghar chale jaana!
Kyu ki ye dosti bade naseeb waalon ko milti hai!
Aao dosti yaad kare!! Love you all guys and wish you all happy Friendship Day 🙌💖
@mainsachitsingh
#love
#life
#spreadlove
#followme on instagram
#wittyfeed
#blogspot
#Friendship Day
Friday 19 2019
Change lives
Dear women,
Didn't expect this would be my first post of the year but then I think it's high time I discuss this with each and every one of you because it's getting out of hands.
Few days back, a friend of a close friend committed suicide because she was groped and molested by some jerks. Later it was found that she was raped for two weeks. She couldn't talk to her family because *it was her own uncle*
Over the years, I happened to talk to thousands of girls/women..married and unmarried through social media or in person.
It's the account of comfort that made those kind people express the most humiliating side of their dark past.
Consider this my own survey which technically has no proof of evidence but deep down if you're reading this, were you sexually molested too?
Take a moment.
Think.
I heard disturbing stories from them about getting tortured, taken advantage of, threatening meetings and what not!
One of the lady I met was raped time and again by the FAMILY PANDIT who used to come to her place for all the hawans, like all the time!
Then a woman told me how she was forced by her own uncle to do nasty things to him in exchange for candies.
Today a friend posted about her life and the challenges she's faced every single day ever since she could recall that she existed.
Brothers blackmailing and humping their own sisters.
Fathers groping and molesting their own daughters.
Dear lord, I met this girl once whose mother used to sit and watch as her father forced her to do things!
So many disturbing stories!
I know this is India, and we don't talk about these things in public and especially in family because in most of the cases, it's the family that's the reason of the issue.
But every time I met someone who had shared a past like this and when they used to tell me about the incidents, I saw that their memories have affected their personalities.
If they're shy, it's because they're scared of the past.
If they're blunt; rude, it's because they've accepted the fact that they've been 'used' and they can't move past it.
This is for all you girls out there who've been a victim or have faced something more traumatic;
And I speak on behalf of the remaining section of the society who are sane, educated and not moronic.
I am proud of you all.
Surviving and overcoming the fears and nightmares which I cannot even begin to imagine..
Thank you for being the beautiful souls you all are but now, suffering in silence is becoming like a third stage cancer.
Please open up.
Spread the word.
Take no shame in sharing and naming the people who've caused you this tragedy.
You've come a long way..
Look at yourself, the strong inspiration that you are today to so many little girls who now look upon you for wisdom.
Be all the sassy you want but take no one's shit.
You have the power in your own hands.
And never, never let go of life so easily.
Not because of some jerk who just walks the streets freely and you trap yourself in when you were the free bird.
Fly.
And if there is no one who'd listen then there are people like me.
Strangers but not so strange.
You'll be mothers someday and you'll have your daughters coming over to you to ask for advices and think about this for a moment; one strong decision you take today will make you a proud mother.
Life doesn't end so easily just because you were humiliated.
It's time you give that humiliation back.
Avenge.
One small spark will light up everything good and BURN EVERYTHING BAD.
You're beautiful and precious.
Don't let anyone degrade your consciousness.
The innocence that resides in you, keep it alive but always know when to kick back.
There's are millions like you who need your support.
For everything there's always hope and when there's nobody to talk to;
#mainsachitsingh
#changelives
Didn't expect this would be my first post of the year but then I think it's high time I discuss this with each and every one of you because it's getting out of hands.
Few days back, a friend of a close friend committed suicide because she was groped and molested by some jerks. Later it was found that she was raped for two weeks. She couldn't talk to her family because *it was her own uncle*
Over the years, I happened to talk to thousands of girls/women..married and unmarried through social media or in person.
It's the account of comfort that made those kind people express the most humiliating side of their dark past.
Consider this my own survey which technically has no proof of evidence but deep down if you're reading this, were you sexually molested too?
Take a moment.
Think.
I heard disturbing stories from them about getting tortured, taken advantage of, threatening meetings and what not!
One of the lady I met was raped time and again by the FAMILY PANDIT who used to come to her place for all the hawans, like all the time!
Then a woman told me how she was forced by her own uncle to do nasty things to him in exchange for candies.
Today a friend posted about her life and the challenges she's faced every single day ever since she could recall that she existed.
Brothers blackmailing and humping their own sisters.
Fathers groping and molesting their own daughters.
Dear lord, I met this girl once whose mother used to sit and watch as her father forced her to do things!
So many disturbing stories!
I know this is India, and we don't talk about these things in public and especially in family because in most of the cases, it's the family that's the reason of the issue.
But every time I met someone who had shared a past like this and when they used to tell me about the incidents, I saw that their memories have affected their personalities.
If they're shy, it's because they're scared of the past.
If they're blunt; rude, it's because they've accepted the fact that they've been 'used' and they can't move past it.
This is for all you girls out there who've been a victim or have faced something more traumatic;
And I speak on behalf of the remaining section of the society who are sane, educated and not moronic.
I am proud of you all.
Surviving and overcoming the fears and nightmares which I cannot even begin to imagine..
Thank you for being the beautiful souls you all are but now, suffering in silence is becoming like a third stage cancer.
Please open up.
Spread the word.
Take no shame in sharing and naming the people who've caused you this tragedy.
You've come a long way..
Look at yourself, the strong inspiration that you are today to so many little girls who now look upon you for wisdom.
Be all the sassy you want but take no one's shit.
You have the power in your own hands.
And never, never let go of life so easily.
Not because of some jerk who just walks the streets freely and you trap yourself in when you were the free bird.
Fly.
And if there is no one who'd listen then there are people like me.
Strangers but not so strange.
You'll be mothers someday and you'll have your daughters coming over to you to ask for advices and think about this for a moment; one strong decision you take today will make you a proud mother.
Life doesn't end so easily just because you were humiliated.
It's time you give that humiliation back.
Avenge.
One small spark will light up everything good and BURN EVERYTHING BAD.
You're beautiful and precious.
Don't let anyone degrade your consciousness.
The innocence that resides in you, keep it alive but always know when to kick back.
There's are millions like you who need your support.
For everything there's always hope and when there's nobody to talk to;
#mainsachitsingh
#changelives
Thursday 18 2019
anniversary mom and dad
Happy 39th anniversary mom and dad
There are milestones in life that get celebrated every year without much fanfare, including birthdays and anniversaries. But some are way more special than just another day on the calendar. Your birthday, dad birthday, wedding anniversaries on the four are all cause for celebration. They’re big milestones for most people.
But none may be more important in this day and age than the 39th wedding anniversary, in my opinion, and that’s why today, 18julyMarch 2019, is special to me. Thirty-nine years ago my mom (Urmila Devi ) and dad (M.k singh) were married.
While I do not have that much relationship experience (in fact, depending on who you ask, I’ve never had a true girlfriend) I know that I have the two best role models in how to make things work. I’ve been lucky enough to also see my grandparents make it 50-plus years. I have the best role models anyone could ask for.
And while our lives are very busy and we rarely have time to sit down and talk about life like we used to, my mom and dad still play a vital role in my life. Without them, I’m not sure I’d be where I am today. Don’t get me wrong, they’re humble and would tell you that my Sister’s and I work our tails off to get to where we are in our lives, but the truth is, without them, we’d be somewhere else.
I love Taylor Swift’s music, and I’d consider myself to be one of those happy romantics, who believes in the fairy tale ending. One day, if I’m as lucky as the two people I celebrate here, I’ll be able to look back on 39 years of being married in the same way my parents have tonight.
Congrats mom and dad. You two are a shining light, two of the best role models anyone could ask for, and you deserve more than just this little blog post.
(However, if I may interject in my defense, I am a student—just trying to get by, and busy as heck with Studies and work, so you’ll have to deal without a big lavish present at the moment!)
Here’s to the past 39 years and many happy more.
Love, your smallest son,
Sachit
#love
#spreadlove
#momanddad
#anniversary
There are milestones in life that get celebrated every year without much fanfare, including birthdays and anniversaries. But some are way more special than just another day on the calendar. Your birthday, dad birthday, wedding anniversaries on the four are all cause for celebration. They’re big milestones for most people.
But none may be more important in this day and age than the 39th wedding anniversary, in my opinion, and that’s why today, 18julyMarch 2019, is special to me. Thirty-nine years ago my mom (Urmila Devi ) and dad (M.k singh) were married.
While I do not have that much relationship experience (in fact, depending on who you ask, I’ve never had a true girlfriend) I know that I have the two best role models in how to make things work. I’ve been lucky enough to also see my grandparents make it 50-plus years. I have the best role models anyone could ask for.
And while our lives are very busy and we rarely have time to sit down and talk about life like we used to, my mom and dad still play a vital role in my life. Without them, I’m not sure I’d be where I am today. Don’t get me wrong, they’re humble and would tell you that my Sister’s and I work our tails off to get to where we are in our lives, but the truth is, without them, we’d be somewhere else.
I love Taylor Swift’s music, and I’d consider myself to be one of those happy romantics, who believes in the fairy tale ending. One day, if I’m as lucky as the two people I celebrate here, I’ll be able to look back on 39 years of being married in the same way my parents have tonight.
Congrats mom and dad. You two are a shining light, two of the best role models anyone could ask for, and you deserve more than just this little blog post.
(However, if I may interject in my defense, I am a student—just trying to get by, and busy as heck with Studies and work, so you’ll have to deal without a big lavish present at the moment!)
Here’s to the past 39 years and many happy more.
Love, your smallest son,
Sachit
#love
#spreadlove
#momanddad
#anniversary
Tuesday 16 2019
Even The Pain is Nothing
It’s An Act, Even The Pain You See Is Nothing…
I act like I’m okay, I tell people I’m okay, and even when people can tell I’m unhappy, I don’t show them almost anything. Hatred, rage, and self-loathing are eating me alive.
I feel so incredibly horrible most of the time. Something inside me never lets me be truly happy. I can be temporarily content, but not truly happy. Whenever I almost become happy, my mind tells me something. It tells me things like: You’re worthless, you know you have to die, you’ll never be anyone or amount to anything, you’re hideous, or you know you can’t and never will be happy. I hide many many thoughts and feelings from everyone. I know that keeping it in is bad, but if people knew some of this….. They’d either think I’m a monster or think I need to be back in the loony bin…
I act like I’m okay, I tell people I’m okay, and even when people can tell I’m unhappy, I don’t show them almost anything. Hatred, rage, and self-loathing are eating me alive.
I feel so incredibly horrible most of the time. Something inside me never lets me be truly happy. I can be temporarily content, but not truly happy. Whenever I almost become happy, my mind tells me something. It tells me things like: You’re worthless, you know you have to die, you’ll never be anyone or amount to anything, you’re hideous, or you know you can’t and never will be happy. I hide many many thoughts and feelings from everyone. I know that keeping it in is bad, but if people knew some of this….. They’d either think I’m a monster or think I need to be back in the loony bin…
Saturday 06 2019
Rhapsody of the heartbroken.
Rhapsody of the heartbroken.
“If you’ve never loved and hated someone at the same time, you’ve never truly been in love.”
Sure, there’s much more to love than just feelings. But the emotions we experience in love make such a lasting effect. We become our true selves because of how we feel about people.
I hate when you won’t talk to me. I hate how cold you are to me. Sure, you say words, but the conversations are shallow. It feels like I’m speaking to your shadow — not your real self.
I want us to become one and the same. I want a partnership, a unit, a love. I’m not sure if you’re scared or just not ready (which I understand), but I need you to know how much I want and need this.
I’m trustworthy, but you don’t seem to believe it.
I know you’re not to blame, though. You’ve had it rough for quite some time now. You’ve suffered from failed relationships, heartbreak and abandonment by your friends. I’m incredibly sorry for that.
I know I may have made some mistakes in the past, but I love you. I’m here for you and will always be here for you. Trust me.
I love you the way someone is supposed to love someone.
You’re someone I will never fully let go of; you are a part of me. I couldn’t leave you if I wanted to.
I hate that you don’t care about me the way I wish you did, but I know one day you could.
It hurts. When I look at you or talk to you, I can tell you don’t care about me the way I care about you.
And though it hurts unlike any pain I’ve endured before, it’s okay. I understand you don’t love me.
But you could. Because it just wouldn’t make sense that someone who loves someone as deeply as I love you wouldn’t receive that love in return. It just can’t be.
I don’t love you like I’ve loved anyone else before; I love you the way someone is supposed to love someone.
I hate myself for loving you, because I know I deserve better than this.
How does one let go of someone who has become a part of them? Tell me where to cut the cord, and I will.
I hate myself for loving you, because I know I deserve better than this. I know I deserve the love I’m giving you.
Why can’t you be that person to me? Why can’t you let me love you? If you won’t let me love you, at least let me hate you completely. I can’t go on loving and hating you at the same time. The tension inside me is building, and I’m feeling like I’m about to implode.
But I know this will one day all work itself out. You will either love me, or I’ll find a way to survive without you. It won’t be easy. I’m not even sure it’s possible to ever completely let go of you, but I have to try.
I won’t let you be the end of me, because there’s a life out there waiting for me to live it. Just know that this could have been beautiful. We could have been beautiful together.
And it wasn’t me who ruined it. Not this time.
#mainsachitsingh
Insta:-@mainsachitsingh
Sunday 30 2019
grown up
I remember the time when my hands couldn't reach the top of the refrigerator so my mom would keep things she didn't want to get my hands on over the top..
So when I got so tall that I could chose things to keep there over the top of the 'fridge' I'd think I've grown.
Used to wear half pants to my school and used to see my seniors in long length trousers I used to think..I'll wear it someday..
And the day came and I thought I've grown up.
When my mom made me wear a formal shirt to a family function, I was the part of the MEN crowd and I felt like such a grown up.
We used pencils back then to write our notes..so when I bought my first 'ink pen' I felt like a grown up.
Mom wouldn't let me use the landline BSNL phone on my own..and if she did, wasn't allowed to talk for long like she and my dad would talk to other people..
So when I ended up a call that lasted more than an hour and mom did not stop me..I felt I've grown up.
Used to see in movies how the actor would go out on a date with the actress and she'd smile and say 'I love you' I thought will I ever get there.
And then I dated. Felt the pain of a heartbreak too. And while I was sitting in the darkness wiping my tears, it felt I've really grown up. I'm not a kid anymore.
When I used to collect coins and put it in a piggy bank I'd wonder I'll spent it on a new Bay-Blade collection..
And when I was buying my first Saree for my mother from the money I saved in my wallet, I felt I've grown up..
When I saw news on Television instead of cartoons, I felt I've grown up..
Used to stand outside the airport seeing a plane fly..
As I'd cross the airport..to me it was a miracle..
And when I had my first flight...I was sure I'm a grown man..
When I used to walk with my uncle and he'd meet someone he knew and they'd say "kabhi aana Bhabhi ji ko le kar" and walk again..I'd see him smile awkwardly..
I realized I've grown up when I actually showed up in the middle of a blind date of a friend.
I used to ride a friend's tricycle while other kids rode bicycles and bikes.
So when I sneaked away my brother's car and drove it all the way.. I felt I've grown up.
When I dropped in a ten rupee note into a beggar's bowl, I was so sure I've grown up..
When I was in a restaurant and called for the waiter for the first time and he came and bowed and asked saying, "yes sir?" I felt like such a grown up..
Going to those fancy fairs and enjoy the rides was all I used to live for At one point of time; so when I said no to that and chose to hangout with my family once, I was so proud. I wanted someone to tell me I've grown up.
And I felt I've grown.
Took me years to realize that to me, my face never changed because every day I used to look into the mirror, it was just my face.
Every single day, it was me and yet people who saw me after years told me..how I looked so different..
And the only evidence to prove the testimony were pictures.
Years went by.
When I was by my friend's side when he lost his father, we both discussed now we've grown up..
Then I saw wrinkles on my parents faces..
My brothers face..
That aunt who'd scold us if the ball would bounce into the balcony..who wouldn't shout anymore and passed away..
The shopkeeper who'd give me free chocolates just like that..was old..and in pain..
When those raw soft drinks after the basketball game became whiskey and beer..I was sure I've grown up.
And here I am..
Thinking about everything I've been through and how time still didn't stop or pause.
How the definition of growing old just scares me now.
How; somehow I feel like if only I could go back in time and be that kid again..
who knew nothing about the world..
who used to have a handful of friends to talk and play with and no responsibilities and sleep at 9 and wake up at 6 get ready for school and meet those scary teachers and live everything all over again.
And all I could gather so far is that in the end, we never really grow up, do we?
Nah, Not even when we're 101.
Because growing up should be fulfilling but we are the images of our imagination.
The journey never stops.
It's an illusion.
We just stop believing that we're never grown up.
Try as may, we couldn't possibly understand why we're here after all now, could we?
It's just the memories we will take away.
The pain, the laughter, the love, the denial..
All those emotions..it's all about it.
Everything else is just ordinary.
It's one of these days I feel everyone around me might be satisfied but no one is content.
They'll never be.
And all I can say about us...
Well, if I could gather all of that from my memories I want to believe I've grown..
But then, I really don't want to.
#mainsachitsingh
#love
#spreadlove
So when I got so tall that I could chose things to keep there over the top of the 'fridge' I'd think I've grown.
Used to wear half pants to my school and used to see my seniors in long length trousers I used to think..I'll wear it someday..
And the day came and I thought I've grown up.
When my mom made me wear a formal shirt to a family function, I was the part of the MEN crowd and I felt like such a grown up.
We used pencils back then to write our notes..so when I bought my first 'ink pen' I felt like a grown up.
Mom wouldn't let me use the landline BSNL phone on my own..and if she did, wasn't allowed to talk for long like she and my dad would talk to other people..
So when I ended up a call that lasted more than an hour and mom did not stop me..I felt I've grown up.
Used to see in movies how the actor would go out on a date with the actress and she'd smile and say 'I love you' I thought will I ever get there.
And then I dated. Felt the pain of a heartbreak too. And while I was sitting in the darkness wiping my tears, it felt I've really grown up. I'm not a kid anymore.
When I used to collect coins and put it in a piggy bank I'd wonder I'll spent it on a new Bay-Blade collection..
And when I was buying my first Saree for my mother from the money I saved in my wallet, I felt I've grown up..
When I saw news on Television instead of cartoons, I felt I've grown up..
Used to stand outside the airport seeing a plane fly..
As I'd cross the airport..to me it was a miracle..
And when I had my first flight...I was sure I'm a grown man..
When I used to walk with my uncle and he'd meet someone he knew and they'd say "kabhi aana Bhabhi ji ko le kar" and walk again..I'd see him smile awkwardly..
I realized I've grown up when I actually showed up in the middle of a blind date of a friend.
I used to ride a friend's tricycle while other kids rode bicycles and bikes.
So when I sneaked away my brother's car and drove it all the way.. I felt I've grown up.
When I dropped in a ten rupee note into a beggar's bowl, I was so sure I've grown up..
When I was in a restaurant and called for the waiter for the first time and he came and bowed and asked saying, "yes sir?" I felt like such a grown up..
Going to those fancy fairs and enjoy the rides was all I used to live for At one point of time; so when I said no to that and chose to hangout with my family once, I was so proud. I wanted someone to tell me I've grown up.
And I felt I've grown.
Took me years to realize that to me, my face never changed because every day I used to look into the mirror, it was just my face.
Every single day, it was me and yet people who saw me after years told me..how I looked so different..
And the only evidence to prove the testimony were pictures.
Years went by.
When I was by my friend's side when he lost his father, we both discussed now we've grown up..
Then I saw wrinkles on my parents faces..
My brothers face..
That aunt who'd scold us if the ball would bounce into the balcony..who wouldn't shout anymore and passed away..
The shopkeeper who'd give me free chocolates just like that..was old..and in pain..
When those raw soft drinks after the basketball game became whiskey and beer..I was sure I've grown up.
And here I am..
Thinking about everything I've been through and how time still didn't stop or pause.
How the definition of growing old just scares me now.
How; somehow I feel like if only I could go back in time and be that kid again..
who knew nothing about the world..
who used to have a handful of friends to talk and play with and no responsibilities and sleep at 9 and wake up at 6 get ready for school and meet those scary teachers and live everything all over again.
And all I could gather so far is that in the end, we never really grow up, do we?
Nah, Not even when we're 101.
Because growing up should be fulfilling but we are the images of our imagination.
The journey never stops.
It's an illusion.
We just stop believing that we're never grown up.
Try as may, we couldn't possibly understand why we're here after all now, could we?
It's just the memories we will take away.
The pain, the laughter, the love, the denial..
All those emotions..it's all about it.
Everything else is just ordinary.
It's one of these days I feel everyone around me might be satisfied but no one is content.
They'll never be.
And all I can say about us...
Well, if I could gather all of that from my memories I want to believe I've grown..
But then, I really don't want to.
#mainsachitsingh
#love
#spreadlove
Friday 28 2019
WITNESS HAPPENED
I met a lady who was forced to marry a guy she hated from her college day but he took it on his 'apparent' male ego and as he was from the same community, convinced the girl's parents and funnily they got married.
On the wedding night she was raped by her own husband and now he sleeps with other women.
The statement he said, "Bola tha na Maine..biwi banunga tujhe..aur apne ghar mein paalunga'
Just like you guys..I was puzzled with one question: I asked the lady, why didn't you tell all of it to your parents and stopped the marriage?
"Bola tha..
Sab bataya..magar same community ka tha aur paise waali humaare level ki family thi toh they said..shaadi ke kuch time baad Sab thik ho jayega"
Haha..
Sahi hai!
Now she's depressed and suicidal.
We've talked a lot of the times about how a person's age of marriage should be 22-23-24 or in some cool timings 25.
We may have parents who might understand this but they will make you do it because of 'duniya bolegi ki 26 saal ki beti ko Abhi tak ghar mein rakha hua hai!'
I totally get family's who won't allow their kids to get married to someone from the other community, oh, and may I add "RIVAL COMMUNITY!"
'Humaare khandan ki ladkiyan chhote kapde nahi pehenti'
'Humaare family mein ladkiyaan kaam Nahi karti!"
"Mobile mein itna internet kahan use ho raha hai?"
"Humaare ghar ki betiyan parties mein Nahi jaati..ladkon se door raho..nazar neeche karke sadak pe chalo..
Sharma ji ki beti ko dekha hai..
Kaisi besharam hai..jab dekho ladke aaye rehte hain uske aas paas..
Izzat..reputation..
Arey kaahe ki izzat bhaisaab?
Mughal zamaane ke raja ho ya Shah Jahan aapki mausi ka ladka lagta hai?
I'm sorry but this is just going out of hands.
The generation?
No..
The mentality?
No.
The pressure of societal trauma.
Call my statement 'Sanskaar-heen', but if we haven't moved past the one thing that's killing uncountable people on a daily basis.
"Hum apne bachche ke ache ke liye hi usko mana karte hain!"
Self defence mechanism achi baat hai..
But baandh kar khaandaan ka darr dikha kar aapne uske
And to all you people, who plan on committing suicide anytime soon..hear me out.
It's a phase.
Just like everything is.
Think about it..
It's a day which will pass..
And a new day will come..
"Don't go against your family and choose killing yourself to save the SO-CALLED izzat of your family!"
Does it even make sense?
You'll die and leave your family in a world which would be worse than 'saving the izzat'.
Talk about things.
"Sab karke dekh liya yaar..koi faayda nahi"
Achi baat hai..yar
Aur karo..
If you don't find anyone who understands, I got your back.
A stranger from an illusional world who'll be there.
I know it's a cliché talking about women's rights but..ladies..just having a family that's cool with you partying and guys friends..that's not freedom, if you're forced to get married to someone you don't want to.
No ma'am. And if all people you know it.
Feel what you have.
Look at yourself in the mirror.
You see that person looking at you from there?
There's so much more in you than the world has seen..
And you want to leave it all only because it got complicated for a few days/months?
Change the rules.
Redefine everything..but do not lose hope.
Never lose hope.
One second worth of mistake will change your 25 years worth of experience.
Think about it.
You're strong.
Stronger than the world has ever seen you.
Be unemotional if that helps but quitting is stupid.
It's so lame, I cannot even begin to define it.
As you read this, the girl is also one of the readers.
She's reading this right now.
And I want you to know, the world has so much more to offer than just the forced reputation and alterations of moods.
Everyone else will tell you how beautiful you are and how your one strong move can change it.
"Shaadi ke baad sab badal jata hai.."
"Sab cheez ki aadat ho jayegi"
"Adjust karna padta hai...shaadi ka dusra naam hi Compromise hai"
Ah, sorry but you cannot rename bullshit with compromise.
I respect other generations but this concept makes no point.
The only way out Is talking.
More talking!
Till they get irritated or furious or violent..but at least make them think about the norms we've created for ourselves.
Age is just a number, they say right?
But who appointed roll numbers to life changing decisions?
Something to talk about, maybe?
#mainsachitsingh
#Changethought
#changelives
#LiveAndLetLive
On the wedding night she was raped by her own husband and now he sleeps with other women.
The statement he said, "Bola tha na Maine..biwi banunga tujhe..aur apne ghar mein paalunga'
Just like you guys..I was puzzled with one question: I asked the lady, why didn't you tell all of it to your parents and stopped the marriage?
"Bola tha..
Sab bataya..magar same community ka tha aur paise waali humaare level ki family thi toh they said..shaadi ke kuch time baad Sab thik ho jayega"
Haha..
Sahi hai!
Now she's depressed and suicidal.
We've talked a lot of the times about how a person's age of marriage should be 22-23-24 or in some cool timings 25.
We may have parents who might understand this but they will make you do it because of 'duniya bolegi ki 26 saal ki beti ko Abhi tak ghar mein rakha hua hai!'
I totally get family's who won't allow their kids to get married to someone from the other community, oh, and may I add "RIVAL COMMUNITY!"
'Humaare khandan ki ladkiyan chhote kapde nahi pehenti'
'Humaare family mein ladkiyaan kaam Nahi karti!"
"Mobile mein itna internet kahan use ho raha hai?"
"Humaare ghar ki betiyan parties mein Nahi jaati..ladkon se door raho..nazar neeche karke sadak pe chalo..
Sharma ji ki beti ko dekha hai..
Kaisi besharam hai..jab dekho ladke aaye rehte hain uske aas paas..
Izzat..reputation..
Arey kaahe ki izzat bhaisaab?
Mughal zamaane ke raja ho ya Shah Jahan aapki mausi ka ladka lagta hai?
I'm sorry but this is just going out of hands.
The generation?
No..
The mentality?
No.
The pressure of societal trauma.
Call my statement 'Sanskaar-heen', but if we haven't moved past the one thing that's killing uncountable people on a daily basis.
"Hum apne bachche ke ache ke liye hi usko mana karte hain!"
Self defence mechanism achi baat hai..
But baandh kar khaandaan ka darr dikha kar aapne uske
And to all you people, who plan on committing suicide anytime soon..hear me out.
It's a phase.
Just like everything is.
Think about it..
It's a day which will pass..
And a new day will come..
"Don't go against your family and choose killing yourself to save the SO-CALLED izzat of your family!"
Does it even make sense?
You'll die and leave your family in a world which would be worse than 'saving the izzat'.
Talk about things.
"Sab karke dekh liya yaar..koi faayda nahi"
Achi baat hai..yar
Aur karo..
If you don't find anyone who understands, I got your back.
A stranger from an illusional world who'll be there.
I know it's a cliché talking about women's rights but..ladies..just having a family that's cool with you partying and guys friends..that's not freedom, if you're forced to get married to someone you don't want to.
No ma'am. And if all people you know it.
Feel what you have.
Look at yourself in the mirror.
You see that person looking at you from there?
There's so much more in you than the world has seen..
And you want to leave it all only because it got complicated for a few days/months?
Change the rules.
Redefine everything..but do not lose hope.
Never lose hope.
One second worth of mistake will change your 25 years worth of experience.
Think about it.
You're strong.
Stronger than the world has ever seen you.
Be unemotional if that helps but quitting is stupid.
It's so lame, I cannot even begin to define it.
As you read this, the girl is also one of the readers.
She's reading this right now.
And I want you to know, the world has so much more to offer than just the forced reputation and alterations of moods.
Everyone else will tell you how beautiful you are and how your one strong move can change it.
"Shaadi ke baad sab badal jata hai.."
"Sab cheez ki aadat ho jayegi"
"Adjust karna padta hai...shaadi ka dusra naam hi Compromise hai"
Ah, sorry but you cannot rename bullshit with compromise.
I respect other generations but this concept makes no point.
The only way out Is talking.
More talking!
Till they get irritated or furious or violent..but at least make them think about the norms we've created for ourselves.
Age is just a number, they say right?
But who appointed roll numbers to life changing decisions?
Something to talk about, maybe?
#mainsachitsingh
#Changethought
#changelives
#LiveAndLetLive
Sunday 16 2019
Dear Dad
Dear Dad
....................................................................................
Every Father’s Day, Kids and wives across the country stands in front of the card section at the local gift shop, staring blankly into an endless selection of over-the-top-sappy, thats-just-not-my-Dad greeting cards, searching for the perfect card that sends the perfect message.
Something as basic as: You’ve been a good Dad. Thank you.
But those cards don’t seem to exist. And even if they did, there would be a strange feeling of inadequate expression if that were the only thing they told dad on Father’s Day.
In the spirit of appreciating the wonderful fathers we’ve been fortunate to know, today I wanted to share with you a few the things dear old dad has taught me over the years.
My Dad taught me that if someone is mad at you, you’ve done something. Look at yourself and your actions that could have caused their change towards you.
My Dad taught me to trust in God for everything.
My Dad taught me that family is forever.
My Dad taught me to work hard, yet stay humble.
My Dad taught me the value of family.
My Dad taught me how to serve.
My Dad taught me to be an individual, not to roll with the crowd for the popular opinion.
My Dad taught me to work harder – no one owes you anything.
My Dad taught me to always keep your word.
My Dad taught me to work hard in life in order to achieve your dreams.
My Dad taught me faith, love and laughter will bring you through anything.
My Dad taught me to have a sense of humor.
My Dad taught me that nothing in this world is free. You will have to work for everything that you get. It is not acceptable to rely on anyone else to support and provide for you or your family.
My Dad taught me not to do something just for the recognition.
My Dad taught me the value of making my carrier and paycheck.
My Dad taught me how to ride a bike, drive a car.
My Dad taught me to keep my credit and my last name clean.
My Dad taught me that if you’re going to be dumb, you better be tough.
My Dad taught me to be independent, but not to refuse someone’s help if I need it.
My Dad taught me the most important thing:
How to be a better human being.
....................................................................................
Hi Dad,
You know When I was 7, I'd think everybody's fathers are strict.
Because of course they should be; that's why they send you to school. Right?
When I'd come back home, you'd ask me the multiplication table of 7 or 9 and I'd make mistakes and you'd scold me and won't let me watch TV or play outside and I used to hate you for that.
He'd embarrass me in front of my friends and relatives by taunting about how I didn't score well in my exams and I'd hate him even more.
When I stole those 21 rupees and you beat me I hated you because kids used to get pocket money I didn't!
All the other kids would talk about how they went on family vacations and I had no such stories because he'd say you didn't study well so no vacations for you,
I'd curse it so much that I started giving up on food, not talk to anyone and get annoyed at everything.
But then every Christmas I'd keep a sock near the tree with a paper full of my wishes and happened to get most of them in the morning..
Me ,my brthrs and my little sister we'd be amazed and I used to think..
I don't want this papa, get me someone who doesn't scold me for everything.
As years went by and I grew up and got mature hitting puberty, you'd not allow me to go hangout with my friends and I almost had it!
All of it.
What the hell was wrong with you?
I'd think you're crazy, you're not changing with the World..
Hah,
The egoistically arrogant nature made me conclude I don't share a good relationship with my father,
Years went by and I graduated; became who I am today..
When I had my first day in my office and you texted me that's you're a proud father and believe in me, I couldn't help but cry my heart out alone..
And now when I see you..
You've turned a little old,
I see wrinkles around your eyes, you talk about our future plans..and it scares me to my soul..but I realised the gift you have given me.
Back then I didn't know you were my Santa and I didn't realise that I was a kid who was getting everything even when it appeared I wasn't.
The struggle stories you tell me how you started everything from nothing makes so much sense to me now.
When I come back from work exhausted and tired, I feel what you felt..
Those scoldings of childhood became life lessons for me and I can't thank you enough for all of it.
I didn't realise how hard a job it is to be a father until I saw you in tears when my legs couldn't work for a year and you'd hide and cry seeing your son in pain.
Couldn't really apologise for those times when I said hurtful things to you behind your back and for all those times I let you down.
I know people who lost their fathers so early in their lives and I see the regret of not being able to express their love to them..
I always felt I have been growing up without a loving father, if only I'd known that you were the sunshine to my journey.
I don't know how to bring back those years to give you a world full of happiness but then this is just a way to let you know from the core of my honoured heart, that you sir, are an inspiration to me and to those who have had the chance to know you personally.
As cliché as it may be but today, I guess, this is just a way to Thank you and apologise for everything...
And I want you to know,
Everything that I am, and everything that I ever will be, is and will always be yours!
to every father and mothers who've shaped our lives in absence of fathers!
#mainsachitsingh
# youand____stories
....................................................................................
Every Father’s Day, Kids and wives across the country stands in front of the card section at the local gift shop, staring blankly into an endless selection of over-the-top-sappy, thats-just-not-my-Dad greeting cards, searching for the perfect card that sends the perfect message.
Something as basic as: You’ve been a good Dad. Thank you.
But those cards don’t seem to exist. And even if they did, there would be a strange feeling of inadequate expression if that were the only thing they told dad on Father’s Day.
In the spirit of appreciating the wonderful fathers we’ve been fortunate to know, today I wanted to share with you a few the things dear old dad has taught me over the years.
My Dad taught me that if someone is mad at you, you’ve done something. Look at yourself and your actions that could have caused their change towards you.
My Dad taught me to trust in God for everything.
My Dad taught me that family is forever.
My Dad taught me to work hard, yet stay humble.
My Dad taught me the value of family.
My Dad taught me how to serve.
My Dad taught me to be an individual, not to roll with the crowd for the popular opinion.
My Dad taught me to work harder – no one owes you anything.
My Dad taught me to always keep your word.
My Dad taught me to work hard in life in order to achieve your dreams.
My Dad taught me faith, love and laughter will bring you through anything.
My Dad taught me to have a sense of humor.
My Dad taught me that nothing in this world is free. You will have to work for everything that you get. It is not acceptable to rely on anyone else to support and provide for you or your family.
My Dad taught me not to do something just for the recognition.
My Dad taught me the value of making my carrier and paycheck.
My Dad taught me how to ride a bike, drive a car.
My Dad taught me to keep my credit and my last name clean.
My Dad taught me that if you’re going to be dumb, you better be tough.
My Dad taught me to be independent, but not to refuse someone’s help if I need it.
My Dad taught me the most important thing:
How to be a better human being.
....................................................................................
Hi Dad,
You know When I was 7, I'd think everybody's fathers are strict.
Because of course they should be; that's why they send you to school. Right?
When I'd come back home, you'd ask me the multiplication table of 7 or 9 and I'd make mistakes and you'd scold me and won't let me watch TV or play outside and I used to hate you for that.
He'd embarrass me in front of my friends and relatives by taunting about how I didn't score well in my exams and I'd hate him even more.
When I stole those 21 rupees and you beat me I hated you because kids used to get pocket money I didn't!
All the other kids would talk about how they went on family vacations and I had no such stories because he'd say you didn't study well so no vacations for you,
I'd curse it so much that I started giving up on food, not talk to anyone and get annoyed at everything.
But then every Christmas I'd keep a sock near the tree with a paper full of my wishes and happened to get most of them in the morning..
Me ,my brthrs and my little sister we'd be amazed and I used to think..
I don't want this papa, get me someone who doesn't scold me for everything.
As years went by and I grew up and got mature hitting puberty, you'd not allow me to go hangout with my friends and I almost had it!
All of it.
What the hell was wrong with you?
I'd think you're crazy, you're not changing with the World..
Hah,
The egoistically arrogant nature made me conclude I don't share a good relationship with my father,
Years went by and I graduated; became who I am today..
When I had my first day in my office and you texted me that's you're a proud father and believe in me, I couldn't help but cry my heart out alone..
And now when I see you..
You've turned a little old,
I see wrinkles around your eyes, you talk about our future plans..and it scares me to my soul..but I realised the gift you have given me.
Back then I didn't know you were my Santa and I didn't realise that I was a kid who was getting everything even when it appeared I wasn't.
The struggle stories you tell me how you started everything from nothing makes so much sense to me now.
When I come back from work exhausted and tired, I feel what you felt..
Those scoldings of childhood became life lessons for me and I can't thank you enough for all of it.
I didn't realise how hard a job it is to be a father until I saw you in tears when my legs couldn't work for a year and you'd hide and cry seeing your son in pain.
Couldn't really apologise for those times when I said hurtful things to you behind your back and for all those times I let you down.
I know people who lost their fathers so early in their lives and I see the regret of not being able to express their love to them..
I always felt I have been growing up without a loving father, if only I'd known that you were the sunshine to my journey.
I don't know how to bring back those years to give you a world full of happiness but then this is just a way to let you know from the core of my honoured heart, that you sir, are an inspiration to me and to those who have had the chance to know you personally.
As cliché as it may be but today, I guess, this is just a way to Thank you and apologise for everything...
And I want you to know,
Everything that I am, and everything that I ever will be, is and will always be yours!
to every father and mothers who've shaped our lives in absence of fathers!
#mainsachitsingh
# youand____stories
Sunday 09 2019
Pal Pal Har Pal
Pal Pal Har Pal (Pal = Friend)
Throughout my life, my friends have always been there for me… they have helped me to maintain my stability and happiness. They always help me when I’m in trouble and they share my joy when I am happy. They are like candlelights that brighten up my way by providing me with their priceless advice. Some of them are so close to me that I even consider them a part of my family.
each of those moments was special because they were there to share them with me… Now that I’ve said this, I guess it would be better for me to tell YOU a litlle bit more about each of them.
(I will have pics of each of them soon)
Subhojit Ghosh(bonny)
If what you are looking for is fun and an awesome person to share your life with… go with Bonny He is always hyper and full of joy to give to his friends and we love to talk and basically chill together. He is one of my best friends and he knows how important he is in my life. We’ve spent the coolest moments together!! Everyone that knows me in person knows exactly how much I talk abut him and how important he has been in my life. With Bonny I not only found true friendship… I also discovered the real meaning of love. He loves a girl since high school and trust me he haven’t fallen for anyone else. He is by far the most amazing and mysterious person I have met in my life. Bonny: thanx for giving me some of the best moments of my whole life… and eventhough we might seem to be separated, you know that deep down we’ll always be one.
Shristi Agarwal
Shrics and I have gone through soooo much in the last couple of years. We have laughed and cried, but most importantly we have grown immensely from each other’s company. He is one of the most admirable and passionate people I know and I love him dearly. Thank you Gotiya for bringing the sunshine into my life.
Shweta Agarwal(rajnikant)
I consider her to be one of the most influential friends. She taught me millions of things, and you can thank her for who I am now. We had big big fights and when i say BIG its really BIG. She understands almost everything and sometimes this is the thing that i didnt really liked about her but now i know thats the best part of her. There is no one like her. She thinks she doesn’t knows me but i can assure her one think, at this moment if there is a girl(friend) on earth who knows me very well, its Shweta. With Shweta I spent incredible moments & she is the one who knows everything about me… hehehe I know many things about her also…. She loves music and dancing… Shweta is a happy person who would give everything to someone she cares for. I call her Rajnikant for a reason and she knows that.
Honey Singh
When you move to a new locality the last thing you expect is to find friends that are so valuable and important that fast. When I moved here(punjabi para) I met Honey the 2nd day of Apna Utsav, and since then we started this journey of happiness and adventure called friendship. He has become more than a friend to me, he’s always there when I need him and with a smile to share when I’m sad. We have fun everytime when we are together, it’s like if magic surrounded us and made of that moment a special one everytime. I’m so thankful that destiny placed this brother cum friend in my life because I know we have something that will last 4ever. Sardaar: I just wanna thank you for being always by my side and for just being you… yOu kIcK aSs!!!
Rohit Sharma(kanji)
Definately one of the coolest dudes I have ever met. With Rohit I’ve spent the coolest and craziest times of my life. We get so hyper together it’s not even funny. I am really glad he is a part of my life because he is a really good friend, who is always willing to listen to you when you need him. We are “work out” partners and our goal is to build 6 pack to show off our muscular bodies [yeah right!!] hehehe… He is really an honest guy and can never tell a lie. I count on him and respect him a lot.!
Komal Chugh
Komal is one of the most authentic human beings I have met in my life. Although we haven’t spent much time together but yet she has demonstrated how much she is worth time and time again and has never disappointed me. Therefore, she occupies a very special place in my heart, and with her I’ve spent some of the best times EVER! Thanx Komal for always putting a smile on my face. I love Ya!
Pushkar Jeetu (pussycat)
Jeetu is one of the best friends I have ever had. We shared the coolest times together… I mean… I hardly ever connect with someone in so many levels as I did with him. He was always there for me… and I think we both really grew up thanks to each other’s company. We were relationship in childhood times ........n play games with him to the most craziest moment of my life specially scooter waali accident..... Whn we meet up we discuss our future n he guides me vry well... Thank u Man to support like my brother..... and although he is enjoying the good life right now… I know that deep down we will always be tight. Jeetu … thanx for helping me to express my true self… U R Awesome!
Arannya Bhaduri(guddu)
I met Guddu at Delhi about a year ago… but somehow it seems like I’ve known him for a lifetime. He is what I call a TRUE friend. He is always there for me when I need a shoulder to lean on. Guddu is a very talented Artist and a very passionate and goal driven individual. I know there are great things waiting for Guddu in the future… and I definately hope I will be by His side to share them with him.
Hemant Agarwal
Hemant is one of the wickedest guys I’ve ever met. We basically started hanging out, but in this very short time period he has shown me what a true friendship is. When we are together, we can talk about anything and just chilling is AWESOME! He has become my best friend and hopefully this will last 4ever. Love ya Man
Rahul Garg(idly)
“Chota Packet Bada Dhamaka”. I guess this would be the perfect term to define him. I have no idea how we became good friends but one thing i want to say about him.. He is one little MAN. There is a saying “Never judge a book by its cover”, once when you get to know rahul; you will agree to this saying. When i was ill and hospitalised for some days in Delhi, there was not a single day when he didn’t came to my home or hospital to see me. I owe him a lot. A sweet and kind friend.
Sonu Bhardwaj (hawas ka pujari)
haha sry man,
Sonu is a very clever guy, he met me when I was in class 9th ,and since then we became very good friends, we use to talk about lots of things, and we shared one of the best moments in our lives… and then suddenly…. time was a bad friend…. we had to split because I'm going to shift in Delhi ,but our friendship tirned to a great friendship. He is a complete entertainer , flirting with girls… he likes to insulting any of them and he is a Guy who masters in the art of hiding emotions behind laughter and his stupid jokes ...overall I must say I will always wid u buddy n me n u gng to famous temple (Hanumaan Mandir) vry soon. I always want you beside me.
Smiti Tamang(munni)
Smiti is the sweetest thing! At first when I saw her, I was amazed, she was really gorgeous but few months back she told me that we we saw each other for the first time she thought i was a very egostic person. One of the most amazing thing about our friendship is that since we became friends, WE NEVER MET. Yes we didn’t. Recently she got married and i really wanted to be with her on that very special day of her life but for some reason i couldn’t. We support and help each other a lot (i guess so). She is a sweet girl and loves dancing a lot. Her husband really cares for her, I never met him in person or had a word with him but i know he Does.for the longest time I thought she hated me and that she was glaring at me, but then I got to know her and discovered the sweet and caring girl behind those glares. We’ve had so much fun together, like grad and our tanning sessions. Thanks Emily for always being there for me and for worrying about me, XoXo .
Ankita jaiswal (Seno,Anny)
Alright, I’m wondering why I’m writing this?! I’ve never been more excited to write. This post is for a girl who is really mysterious but still I feel I know her. I still can’t figure how I found her but I don’t want to think about that. At first we used to chat on insta very formally but then we started talking like we are good friends. Even today we do the same, we talk like any normal good friends does. We hardly share few likes and dislikes in common but love to chat. She is one girl who is original, Cannot be replaced. I do have female friends and they are really good to me and as person too. I feel lucky to have then but when its comes about mysterious girl, Well I don’t know what to say, I Smile and Smile and Smile. The funniest part is, Sometimes she gets angry on any situation thn I reply with a smiley ” 🙂 “. I like the way she is. There are only a few people who are kind and on the same hand open minded. I wanted to know her more, and I guess now I know her! Can’t say about “MORE”. I know there is still more to discover about her and I’m sure one day I will. She does her best for me to know her, I love the effort she puts to keep our friendship alive and making it strong day by day. Her Tik tok videos, Her different looks, Even a normal smiley grabs my attention. I don’t know why but when ever I see a new message in my inbox, I expect it to be her. Hope she never gets me wrong because she certainly one of the best thing that has happened to me.
I never met Her, but I feel I know her. We meet formal on instagram post whn she like my post n massaging me n I'm also interested to chat wid her thn become my friendship stronger day by day. Thank you my love 😍
P.S. Still there lots of friends about whom i am writing and will update this post soon.
Throughout my life, my friends have always been there for me… they have helped me to maintain my stability and happiness. They always help me when I’m in trouble and they share my joy when I am happy. They are like candlelights that brighten up my way by providing me with their priceless advice. Some of them are so close to me that I even consider them a part of my family.
each of those moments was special because they were there to share them with me… Now that I’ve said this, I guess it would be better for me to tell YOU a litlle bit more about each of them.
(I will have pics of each of them soon)
Subhojit Ghosh(bonny)
If what you are looking for is fun and an awesome person to share your life with… go with Bonny He is always hyper and full of joy to give to his friends and we love to talk and basically chill together. He is one of my best friends and he knows how important he is in my life. We’ve spent the coolest moments together!! Everyone that knows me in person knows exactly how much I talk abut him and how important he has been in my life. With Bonny I not only found true friendship… I also discovered the real meaning of love. He loves a girl since high school and trust me he haven’t fallen for anyone else. He is by far the most amazing and mysterious person I have met in my life. Bonny: thanx for giving me some of the best moments of my whole life… and eventhough we might seem to be separated, you know that deep down we’ll always be one.
Shristi Agarwal
Shrics and I have gone through soooo much in the last couple of years. We have laughed and cried, but most importantly we have grown immensely from each other’s company. He is one of the most admirable and passionate people I know and I love him dearly. Thank you Gotiya for bringing the sunshine into my life.
Shweta Agarwal(rajnikant)
I consider her to be one of the most influential friends. She taught me millions of things, and you can thank her for who I am now. We had big big fights and when i say BIG its really BIG. She understands almost everything and sometimes this is the thing that i didnt really liked about her but now i know thats the best part of her. There is no one like her. She thinks she doesn’t knows me but i can assure her one think, at this moment if there is a girl(friend) on earth who knows me very well, its Shweta. With Shweta I spent incredible moments & she is the one who knows everything about me… hehehe I know many things about her also…. She loves music and dancing… Shweta is a happy person who would give everything to someone she cares for. I call her Rajnikant for a reason and she knows that.
Honey Singh
When you move to a new locality the last thing you expect is to find friends that are so valuable and important that fast. When I moved here(punjabi para) I met Honey the 2nd day of Apna Utsav, and since then we started this journey of happiness and adventure called friendship. He has become more than a friend to me, he’s always there when I need him and with a smile to share when I’m sad. We have fun everytime when we are together, it’s like if magic surrounded us and made of that moment a special one everytime. I’m so thankful that destiny placed this brother cum friend in my life because I know we have something that will last 4ever. Sardaar: I just wanna thank you for being always by my side and for just being you… yOu kIcK aSs!!!
Rohit Sharma(kanji)
Definately one of the coolest dudes I have ever met. With Rohit I’ve spent the coolest and craziest times of my life. We get so hyper together it’s not even funny. I am really glad he is a part of my life because he is a really good friend, who is always willing to listen to you when you need him. We are “work out” partners and our goal is to build 6 pack to show off our muscular bodies [yeah right!!] hehehe… He is really an honest guy and can never tell a lie. I count on him and respect him a lot.!
Komal Chugh
Komal is one of the most authentic human beings I have met in my life. Although we haven’t spent much time together but yet she has demonstrated how much she is worth time and time again and has never disappointed me. Therefore, she occupies a very special place in my heart, and with her I’ve spent some of the best times EVER! Thanx Komal for always putting a smile on my face. I love Ya!
Pushkar Jeetu (pussycat)
Jeetu is one of the best friends I have ever had. We shared the coolest times together… I mean… I hardly ever connect with someone in so many levels as I did with him. He was always there for me… and I think we both really grew up thanks to each other’s company. We were relationship in childhood times ........n play games with him to the most craziest moment of my life specially scooter waali accident..... Whn we meet up we discuss our future n he guides me vry well... Thank u Man to support like my brother..... and although he is enjoying the good life right now… I know that deep down we will always be tight. Jeetu … thanx for helping me to express my true self… U R Awesome!
Arannya Bhaduri(guddu)
I met Guddu at Delhi about a year ago… but somehow it seems like I’ve known him for a lifetime. He is what I call a TRUE friend. He is always there for me when I need a shoulder to lean on. Guddu is a very talented Artist and a very passionate and goal driven individual. I know there are great things waiting for Guddu in the future… and I definately hope I will be by His side to share them with him.
Hemant Agarwal
Hemant is one of the wickedest guys I’ve ever met. We basically started hanging out, but in this very short time period he has shown me what a true friendship is. When we are together, we can talk about anything and just chilling is AWESOME! He has become my best friend and hopefully this will last 4ever. Love ya Man
Rahul Garg(idly)
“Chota Packet Bada Dhamaka”. I guess this would be the perfect term to define him. I have no idea how we became good friends but one thing i want to say about him.. He is one little MAN. There is a saying “Never judge a book by its cover”, once when you get to know rahul; you will agree to this saying. When i was ill and hospitalised for some days in Delhi, there was not a single day when he didn’t came to my home or hospital to see me. I owe him a lot. A sweet and kind friend.
Sonu Bhardwaj (hawas ka pujari)
haha sry man,
Sonu is a very clever guy, he met me when I was in class 9th ,and since then we became very good friends, we use to talk about lots of things, and we shared one of the best moments in our lives… and then suddenly…. time was a bad friend…. we had to split because I'm going to shift in Delhi ,but our friendship tirned to a great friendship. He is a complete entertainer , flirting with girls… he likes to insulting any of them and he is a Guy who masters in the art of hiding emotions behind laughter and his stupid jokes ...overall I must say I will always wid u buddy n me n u gng to famous temple (Hanumaan Mandir) vry soon. I always want you beside me.
Smiti Tamang(munni)
Smiti is the sweetest thing! At first when I saw her, I was amazed, she was really gorgeous but few months back she told me that we we saw each other for the first time she thought i was a very egostic person. One of the most amazing thing about our friendship is that since we became friends, WE NEVER MET. Yes we didn’t. Recently she got married and i really wanted to be with her on that very special day of her life but for some reason i couldn’t. We support and help each other a lot (i guess so). She is a sweet girl and loves dancing a lot. Her husband really cares for her, I never met him in person or had a word with him but i know he Does.for the longest time I thought she hated me and that she was glaring at me, but then I got to know her and discovered the sweet and caring girl behind those glares. We’ve had so much fun together, like grad and our tanning sessions. Thanks Emily for always being there for me and for worrying about me, XoXo .
Ankita jaiswal (Seno,Anny)
Alright, I’m wondering why I’m writing this?! I’ve never been more excited to write. This post is for a girl who is really mysterious but still I feel I know her. I still can’t figure how I found her but I don’t want to think about that. At first we used to chat on insta very formally but then we started talking like we are good friends. Even today we do the same, we talk like any normal good friends does. We hardly share few likes and dislikes in common but love to chat. She is one girl who is original, Cannot be replaced. I do have female friends and they are really good to me and as person too. I feel lucky to have then but when its comes about mysterious girl, Well I don’t know what to say, I Smile and Smile and Smile. The funniest part is, Sometimes she gets angry on any situation thn I reply with a smiley ” 🙂 “. I like the way she is. There are only a few people who are kind and on the same hand open minded. I wanted to know her more, and I guess now I know her! Can’t say about “MORE”. I know there is still more to discover about her and I’m sure one day I will. She does her best for me to know her, I love the effort she puts to keep our friendship alive and making it strong day by day. Her Tik tok videos, Her different looks, Even a normal smiley grabs my attention. I don’t know why but when ever I see a new message in my inbox, I expect it to be her. Hope she never gets me wrong because she certainly one of the best thing that has happened to me.
I never met Her, but I feel I know her. We meet formal on instagram post whn she like my post n massaging me n I'm also interested to chat wid her thn become my friendship stronger day by day. Thank you my love 😍
P.S. Still there lots of friends about whom i am writing and will update this post soon.
Thursday 30 2019
Relationship
Relationship
As I grow, I learn. My desires from a relationship have changed over the course of time. Now I no longer want someone who says they would be with me forever, and I no longer want someone who says they would never leave me. I am not looking for someone who is always neatly dressed up, or wears high heels, or has an amazing sense of humour or has great cooking skills. I am not looking for someone who has the false sense of love, and thinks that love is finding that one perfect person, or someone who is trying to check items off their list while they search for “the one”. I want someone who understands that “the one” is a fairy tale, and though fairy tales do happen in real life, they take much more work than the Cinderella finding her prince charming by walking into a party. Every fairy tale ends with “happily ever after”, I want someone who realizes that the “happily ever afters” are a lot of hard work. As I grow, I have learnt that the physical traits matter less and less and loyalty and undivided attention are the most important traits in a relationship. I don’t want someone who sugar coats everything, and never gets angry at anything. I want someone who is raw, and real, and tells me how it really is. I am more interested in someone who realizes that sometimes life happens and sometimes things don’t work out. I want to be able to make a conversation with them, for four hours straight, and not feel bored, and not feel unwanted and not feel like they are not listening. I want someone who wants to know how my day was, always. As I grow, I have learnt that privacy is important, and there is only so much time that we all have on this earth and only so many people that we can spend it with. I want someone who wants to spend their time with me as much as I want to spend time with them, any less is just not good enough. I want someone who admits that they really like my company rather than playing games, alas, modern dating, games have become the norm, and I don’t have time or patience to play along. As I grow, I have learnt, that I am complete by myself, and I don’t need anyone to define my existence, but you can make me so much better. I want to be stronger with you, and grow with you, together, and individually. To tell you the truth – no, I don’t need you – but I really want you. And all of this, that you realize that we are two very different people, and that we are just starting to know each other, and that we might not work out, and everything else about our relationship, makes me think that this might actually work, that we’ve got a pretty good shot.
Saturday 18 2019
Depression
Depression is REAL.
I’ve received a lot of mental health advice over the year since my sister died, and while the vast majority of said advice has been helpful, one troublesome comment keeps coming up.
“Aw, it’s okay. You’ll snap out of it; I mean, everyone gets depressed.”
Make no mistake: I know these words are well-intentioned. They are meant to lift my spirits and remind me I am okay, I will be okay, and that I am not alone. But every time I hear them, I cringe because they are not true.
They could not be further from the truth.
You see, depression isn’t a “bad day.” It isn’t a bad moment, a bad week, and everyone does not “get depressed” because depression is a disease — a disease which you cannot “shake,” you cannot “snap out of,” and you cannot wish away.
Depression is a disease you cannot will away.
That said, many use the word depressed to convey extreme sadness. In fact, the phrase “I’m depressed” may actually be more be common than “I’m sad.” The good news is this shift in vernacular has led to an unconscious shift in how we feel about depression, and what we think. But depression and sadness are not the same thing. Feeling depressed is not the same as having depression, and by saying things like this, we make things more complicated, we make things more confusing, we take away the seriousness of the disease, we minimize the disease, and we make the sufferer feel as though it is all in their head — a feeling they could, and should, be able to shake.
Sadness is a feeling; depression is an illness.
Sadness is an emotion, one of sorrow or pain, which almost always has an underlying cause/outside trigger (i.e. death, divorce, job loss, medical diagnosis, etc.). Depression, however, is a serious medical illness which can be “caused by a combination of genetic, biological, environmental, and psychological factors.” While the symptoms of depression can be intensified by an external factor, like those named above, these events do not cause depression.
Sadness may take away your desire to smile but depression will take away your ability.
I hate to use the word normal — since who defines what is or is not normal — but sadness is a normal emotion. It is a feeling we have in response to disappointment, or in response to hearing generally unpleasant, and sometimes tragic, news. Sadness can be felt when you lose a loved one, when you lose your job, when your friends cancel plans, or when your boyfriend/girlfriend breaks up with you. In short, sadness occurs when you are hurt. It comes in waves, and while sadness can linger, it is temporary.
Sadness will fade, but depression is constant. It is comprised of a series of symptoms ranging from extreme sadness and negative thinking to emptiness, hopelessness, worthlessness, and numbness. Depression can cause sleeping problems, eating problems, and concentration issues, and these symptoms are present, in one form or another, every minute of every day because happy thoughts cannot cure depression. Faith, money, and love cannot cure depression, and nothing can truly cure depression. It can only be treated and managed.
That said, it is a misconception that those who are depressed are perpetually sad and constantly crying. While these symptoms are common in the grips of a major depressive episode, for most, these feelings are not experienced on a weekly or even monthly basis. Instead, it is the other symptoms that make up their day-to-day life.
Everyone experiences sadness and grief but…
When loneliness persists, sadness sticks, and dismal feelings linger — when you become a shell of who you once were — you should consider something more may be at work, especially if you can’t “snap out of it.” Because there is no “snapping out of it” or “pulling yourself together” when you a struggling with depression. Even with the right medication. Even with all of the “tools.”
If you think you or a loved one think you may be suffering from depression, seek the counsel of a trained mental health professional — as this information is based solely on my experiences and should not be used to self-diagnose.
Share it...... 🙏🙏
I’ve received a lot of mental health advice over the year since my sister died, and while the vast majority of said advice has been helpful, one troublesome comment keeps coming up.
“Aw, it’s okay. You’ll snap out of it; I mean, everyone gets depressed.”
Make no mistake: I know these words are well-intentioned. They are meant to lift my spirits and remind me I am okay, I will be okay, and that I am not alone. But every time I hear them, I cringe because they are not true.
They could not be further from the truth.
You see, depression isn’t a “bad day.” It isn’t a bad moment, a bad week, and everyone does not “get depressed” because depression is a disease — a disease which you cannot “shake,” you cannot “snap out of,” and you cannot wish away.
Depression is a disease you cannot will away.
That said, many use the word depressed to convey extreme sadness. In fact, the phrase “I’m depressed” may actually be more be common than “I’m sad.” The good news is this shift in vernacular has led to an unconscious shift in how we feel about depression, and what we think. But depression and sadness are not the same thing. Feeling depressed is not the same as having depression, and by saying things like this, we make things more complicated, we make things more confusing, we take away the seriousness of the disease, we minimize the disease, and we make the sufferer feel as though it is all in their head — a feeling they could, and should, be able to shake.
Sadness is a feeling; depression is an illness.
Sadness is an emotion, one of sorrow or pain, which almost always has an underlying cause/outside trigger (i.e. death, divorce, job loss, medical diagnosis, etc.). Depression, however, is a serious medical illness which can be “caused by a combination of genetic, biological, environmental, and psychological factors.” While the symptoms of depression can be intensified by an external factor, like those named above, these events do not cause depression.
Sadness may take away your desire to smile but depression will take away your ability.
I hate to use the word normal — since who defines what is or is not normal — but sadness is a normal emotion. It is a feeling we have in response to disappointment, or in response to hearing generally unpleasant, and sometimes tragic, news. Sadness can be felt when you lose a loved one, when you lose your job, when your friends cancel plans, or when your boyfriend/girlfriend breaks up with you. In short, sadness occurs when you are hurt. It comes in waves, and while sadness can linger, it is temporary.
Sadness will fade, but depression is constant. It is comprised of a series of symptoms ranging from extreme sadness and negative thinking to emptiness, hopelessness, worthlessness, and numbness. Depression can cause sleeping problems, eating problems, and concentration issues, and these symptoms are present, in one form or another, every minute of every day because happy thoughts cannot cure depression. Faith, money, and love cannot cure depression, and nothing can truly cure depression. It can only be treated and managed.
That said, it is a misconception that those who are depressed are perpetually sad and constantly crying. While these symptoms are common in the grips of a major depressive episode, for most, these feelings are not experienced on a weekly or even monthly basis. Instead, it is the other symptoms that make up their day-to-day life.
Everyone experiences sadness and grief but…
When loneliness persists, sadness sticks, and dismal feelings linger — when you become a shell of who you once were — you should consider something more may be at work, especially if you can’t “snap out of it.” Because there is no “snapping out of it” or “pulling yourself together” when you a struggling with depression. Even with the right medication. Even with all of the “tools.”
If you think you or a loved one think you may be suffering from depression, seek the counsel of a trained mental health professional — as this information is based solely on my experiences and should not be used to self-diagnose.
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Saturday 11 2019
AM REALLY SORRY MAA
Hi MAA, Happy Mother's Day.
Aur look kya de rahi hain aap, thik hai na sab log social media par wish kar rahe the so socha main bhi wish kar loon. Actually no, Actually apko Mother's Day wish nahi karna chyta, Aur iske lia Mai aapse baat bhi nahi kar raha hun. Sirf aapse hi nahi, main yhaan saari MAA oo se baat kar raha hun. Jitni bhi world main MAA hai, jitni bhi meri ye story dekh paa rahi hai main.... Actually kuch confess karne ke liye aapse baat kar raha hun.
Hmmm........ Am sorry, Am really really sorry MAA. Har uss chiz ke liye, jisko tum chupaati aaiye ho aaj tak. Mujhe pata hai ghanta apko fark nahi padta ki Mai tumhe aaj Mother's Day wish karu, ya tumhe rose gift karu, tumhare liye aaj kitchen me, main chla jawu, ya tumhari khaane ko appreciate kar Du. Am really sorry MAA but mujhe pata hai tumhe insb chizo se koi fark nahi padta. Am sorry Mai, itna bewkuf tha, itna nadaan, itna nikamaa tha ki ye saari chize Maine nazar andaaz kar di kis tarike se papa ki daant ko chupati thi tum,kis tarike se tum mere gusse ko seh liya karti thi Aur, aaj Mai tumse dur rehta hoon, professional ho gaya hoon, study kar raha hoon, Hahahaha naam kar raha hoon, jo Mai jatata hun ki tumhare liye kar raha hoon. Am really sorry MAA.
Mujhe pata hai tumhe koi fark nahi padta ki Mother's Day aaj aaye ga ya kal aaye ga, kyu ki tumhe bhi pata hai Aur saari maa ooo ko pata hai ki... Hum sab ek dikha waa kar rahe hain, hum sab!!
Tum fir bhi wahi kitchen Mai raho gi, kon si New movie aaiee tumhe ghanta Fark ni pade ga kyu ki tumhe Mann bhi kare GA na, tum mujhe nahi batao gi, tum ghar par bhi nahi batao gi. Tum thank you bolo gi, tum blush bhi karo gi, tumhe bahut khusi bhi hogi but tum chupaoo gi, kyu ki tumhe pata hai, tumhe pata hai ki u let him down. Aur tumse kya saari maa ooo se sorry bolna chyta hoon main !
Am really sorry MAA, am so sorry ki tumhe meri wajah se papa ki daante sunani padti thi aur tum meri bhi gusse ko seh liya karti thi. Mai khana tumhare saamne fek diya karta tha aur tum chupke se raat main wo khana mere room Mai laa kar rakh diya karti thi.
Am sorry MAA, Aaj, aaj iss so cold progressive society main modern ho gaya hoon. Tumse 4 days Mai ek baar baat hoti hai, wo bhi main yuhi phone Cut kar deta hun ye bol kar chlo thk hai maa baad main baat karta hoon, kaam kar raha hoon, busy hun, mom apko samajh nahi aati Main kaam kar raha hun, aap logo ke liye hi to kar raha hun! Aisi jo baatein bol diya karta hun please Am really sorry MAA.
Iss Mother's Day mujhe apko wish nahi karna bas aapse maafi maagni hai, maafi bhi iss baat ki maagni hai ki Mai itna bewokoof, itna nithala, itna nikama nikala ki apki....
Apki srr(head) pe jo ye safed (white) baal (Hair) aane lage hain usko bhi nazar andaaz kar diya maine! Bachapan ki photos dekhi kese aap mujhe bachpan ki kahaniya batati ki main uss umar (age) ye karta tha, main morning main wo karta tha, aur Mai ye bhul gaya ki aap mere liye uss wqat kitna kuch karti thi MAA. Am really sorry MAA.
Mujhe nahi pata duniya main baaki maaye kesi hain, kya karti hain but tum, tum un sabse alag ho aur, Ab pata nahi main kaise maafi maangu. Rona bhi chyta hoon to lgta hai ki tum aakar bologi mat ro Beta sab thek hain. Kya hua mujhe fark nahi padta, mujhe pata hai isliye main rota bhi nahi hoon.
Kyun ho tum aisi, yaad aati hai tumhaari ,magar Mai bata nahi pata kyun ki main itna so called busy jo ho gaya hoon. Aur aaj bhi sirf treading main apko wish kar raha hoon MAA otherwise mujhe to pata bhi nahi tha ki aaj Mother's Day hain!
MAA I love you............
dil se batane ka mauka na jaane kab Mile GA but I really love you MAA. (mom)
Aur look kya de rahi hain aap, thik hai na sab log social media par wish kar rahe the so socha main bhi wish kar loon. Actually no, Actually apko Mother's Day wish nahi karna chyta, Aur iske lia Mai aapse baat bhi nahi kar raha hun. Sirf aapse hi nahi, main yhaan saari MAA oo se baat kar raha hun. Jitni bhi world main MAA hai, jitni bhi meri ye story dekh paa rahi hai main.... Actually kuch confess karne ke liye aapse baat kar raha hun.
Hmmm........ Am sorry, Am really really sorry MAA. Har uss chiz ke liye, jisko tum chupaati aaiye ho aaj tak. Mujhe pata hai ghanta apko fark nahi padta ki Mai tumhe aaj Mother's Day wish karu, ya tumhe rose gift karu, tumhare liye aaj kitchen me, main chla jawu, ya tumhari khaane ko appreciate kar Du. Am really sorry MAA but mujhe pata hai tumhe insb chizo se koi fark nahi padta. Am sorry Mai, itna bewkuf tha, itna nadaan, itna nikamaa tha ki ye saari chize Maine nazar andaaz kar di kis tarike se papa ki daant ko chupati thi tum,kis tarike se tum mere gusse ko seh liya karti thi Aur, aaj Mai tumse dur rehta hoon, professional ho gaya hoon, study kar raha hoon, Hahahaha naam kar raha hoon, jo Mai jatata hun ki tumhare liye kar raha hoon. Am really sorry MAA.
Mujhe pata hai tumhe koi fark nahi padta ki Mother's Day aaj aaye ga ya kal aaye ga, kyu ki tumhe bhi pata hai Aur saari maa ooo ko pata hai ki... Hum sab ek dikha waa kar rahe hain, hum sab!!
Tum fir bhi wahi kitchen Mai raho gi, kon si New movie aaiee tumhe ghanta Fark ni pade ga kyu ki tumhe Mann bhi kare GA na, tum mujhe nahi batao gi, tum ghar par bhi nahi batao gi. Tum thank you bolo gi, tum blush bhi karo gi, tumhe bahut khusi bhi hogi but tum chupaoo gi, kyu ki tumhe pata hai, tumhe pata hai ki u let him down. Aur tumse kya saari maa ooo se sorry bolna chyta hoon main !
Am really sorry MAA, am so sorry ki tumhe meri wajah se papa ki daante sunani padti thi aur tum meri bhi gusse ko seh liya karti thi. Mai khana tumhare saamne fek diya karta tha aur tum chupke se raat main wo khana mere room Mai laa kar rakh diya karti thi.
Am sorry MAA, Aaj, aaj iss so cold progressive society main modern ho gaya hoon. Tumse 4 days Mai ek baar baat hoti hai, wo bhi main yuhi phone Cut kar deta hun ye bol kar chlo thk hai maa baad main baat karta hoon, kaam kar raha hoon, busy hun, mom apko samajh nahi aati Main kaam kar raha hun, aap logo ke liye hi to kar raha hun! Aisi jo baatein bol diya karta hun please Am really sorry MAA.
Iss Mother's Day mujhe apko wish nahi karna bas aapse maafi maagni hai, maafi bhi iss baat ki maagni hai ki Mai itna bewokoof, itna nithala, itna nikama nikala ki apki....
Apki srr(head) pe jo ye safed (white) baal (Hair) aane lage hain usko bhi nazar andaaz kar diya maine! Bachapan ki photos dekhi kese aap mujhe bachpan ki kahaniya batati ki main uss umar (age) ye karta tha, main morning main wo karta tha, aur Mai ye bhul gaya ki aap mere liye uss wqat kitna kuch karti thi MAA. Am really sorry MAA.
Mujhe nahi pata duniya main baaki maaye kesi hain, kya karti hain but tum, tum un sabse alag ho aur, Ab pata nahi main kaise maafi maangu. Rona bhi chyta hoon to lgta hai ki tum aakar bologi mat ro Beta sab thek hain. Kya hua mujhe fark nahi padta, mujhe pata hai isliye main rota bhi nahi hoon.
Kyun ho tum aisi, yaad aati hai tumhaari ,magar Mai bata nahi pata kyun ki main itna so called busy jo ho gaya hoon. Aur aaj bhi sirf treading main apko wish kar raha hoon MAA otherwise mujhe to pata bhi nahi tha ki aaj Mother's Day hain!
MAA I love you............
dil se batane ka mauka na jaane kab Mile GA but I really love you MAA. (mom)
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